TheBladeRunner Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Here I am with my 100th post and I thought I would throw out a quick thanks to all that have responded to me as well as those that are generous enough to post their story so I can read it and say "wow, that sounds like my situation". It's been very helpful and it also shows me that I'm not the only person in the world that has suffered a divorce. I am going to court tomorrow for the divorce and it's all uncontested; the gavel should drop and it will all be official by the last week of May. I realize it will never truly be "over" as she and I have a child together, but thanks to my own work with IC, friends, THIS SITE, and even a divorce group, I KNOW I am going to be OK. Everyone on this site has been awesome, and I am sure as I continue with my "divorced guy" journey I will be back here quite frequently. There are some great posters here and all the previous things I mentioned have been instrumental in my healing, thank you all! 2
Techie Artist Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Here I am with my 100th post and I thought I would throw out a quick thanks to all that have responded to me as well as those that are generous enough to post their story so I can read it and say "wow, that sounds like my situation". It's been very helpful and it also shows me that I'm not the only person in the world that has suffered a divorce. I am going to court tomorrow for the divorce and it's all uncontested; the gavel should drop and it will all be official by the last week of May. I realize it will never truly be "over" as she and I have a child together, but thanks to my own work with IC, friends, THIS SITE, and even a divorce group, I KNOW I am going to be OK. Everyone on this site has been awesome, and I am sure as I continue with my "divorced guy" journey I will be back here quite frequently. There are some great posters here and all the previous things I mentioned have been instrumental in my healing, thank you all! Blade, condolences for the breakup...but congrats for your new freedom. I wish you the best. 2
Mr. Lucky Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Hope it all goes smoothly. What have you agreed upon for custody and visitation? Mr. Lucky 1
Author TheBladeRunner Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 Hey Mr. "L", it's been 50/50 on the custody since day one, I had this drawn up by my attorney BEFORE I ever left the house. Th caps are to emphasize to anyone that is thinking of leaving the house that (at least in my state) it's advisable to have a custody/visitation agreement in place before leaving. Also, no money drama on either end as well; the only real challenges throughout the process are the emotional ones.
worldgonewrong Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Hang tough, my brother. You're in my thoughts & prayers. And don't be a stranger here, as I'm sure people will continue to get strength from the testimony of your journey. 1
Mr. Lucky Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Hey Mr. "L", it's been 50/50 on the custody since day one, I had this drawn up by my attorney BEFORE I ever left the house. Th caps are to emphasize to anyone that is thinking of leaving the house that (at least in my state) it's advisable to have a custody/visitation agreement in place before leaving. Also, no money drama on either end as well; the only real challenges throughout the process are the emotional ones. Glad to hear, too back more divorcing spouses don't understand the importance of both parents equal involvement after separation. As I've posted on here before, I had more quality time with my son after our divorce than before... Mr. Lucky 1
Author TheBladeRunner Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 Hang tough, my brother. You're in my thoughts & prayers. And don't be a stranger here, as I'm sure people will continue to get strength from the testimony of your journey. Thanks WGW, I'm sure I'll be around for awhile. I find this site to be a great resource regarding relationships. It's been a long haul, but I am actually at peace right now; I have about two and a half hours before court today and I am feeling no pain, completely indifferent. Thanks for your thoughts my friend. 1
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