meme2012 Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 Hello,everyone, i am new to posting about how i feel and my personal situation online but i have really no one to talk to,thank you for your help... So last year in july me ex asked me to call him,after about three years of not talking or keeping any contact even though we work in the same building,he works on a different floor so we did not see each other very often. Our break up was not messy we just went our separate ways no questions asked,and were able to remain friendly, shortly after i started to date someone else and had some difficulties in my relationship and my ex was there to support me.Luckily everything worked out well and i haven't spoken to my ex after that. I knew he got engaged,he knew i was in a relationship too. So i was really surprised when he asked me to call after such a long time. so we started talking, emailing each other,some of those were hot and steamy it is so easy to talk to him. I was in a difficult situation again and he was there for me when i needed him.I now realized i have feelings for him he is 48 and im 30 . I know its too late for us we missed our chance. He is engaged it should be the happiest moment of his life so why is he chooses to talk to me ? he said once that maybe we should have never stopped seeing each other..I dont want to ruin my relationship or his .
scatterd Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 I think he is calling for a fling on the side. You are doing fine so I would not get involved. It seems he has set a pattern for his self. Keep your head high and leave him be you will be happy you did.
Praying4Peace Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 I think he's engaged and having this whole 'is she the right one? Did I let the right one go before?' Moment. Cold feet or whatever you call it. Why don't you ask him? I'd be interested in his response...
Author meme2012 Posted May 13, 2013 Author Posted May 13, 2013 Thank you you very ,very much for your help, I did ask why?the answer was "maybe the time needed to pass,or maybe we should have never stopped,you went your way and i went mine and our paths have crossed again" ...I dont think he wants to cheat on his fiance but why is he doing it then? we got together couple of times nothing happened but the sexual tension is there i gave him a hug and felt his erection,and i know he was thinking about it when we were together...so
ComingInHot Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 meme, I was wondering, how old is your current BF? Is he older like the engaged ex? 30 is young with so much action & adventure ahead! I guess I am thinking of what 48 looks/ed like to me when I was 30. Heck! 48 still seems a bit too old for me (but I'm young at heart too so..*). Do you have children? Do you want children? Does he have or want children/more children? I am just thinking about things that I was dreaming of at 30/ish
Author meme2012 Posted May 14, 2013 Author Posted May 14, 2013 Hello,no my boyfriend is 30, i found out about a year ago that he cant have children,i never really wanted kids so it wasnt a deal breaker for me,and no neither one of us has any kids, my ex on the other hand has a son
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