babbygirl83 Posted September 26, 2004 Posted September 26, 2004 I'm a 21 years old female and he is 25.We dated for about 5 months and he decided to break u with me.The reason for the break up is still unclear to me. It's been two weeks since we broke up and he hasn't called or even tried to contact me. About 3 weeks ago,his ex called my phone but she didn't say anything to me.as soon as she had called my phone.he started acting funny like making plans with me and cancelling at the last minute.He did that 3 times in a row but i just said it was okay although i felt hurt and i made that known to him but he said he was sorry. Then two weeks ago he called and said he was sry for the way he was treating me and he didn't mean to treat me that way but his ex girlfriend had been calling him and was messing with his head.He also said he still had feelings for her but he wasn't trying to get back with her because she had cheated on him.I felt bad and of course i told my friend and she got really upset about the whole thing and said stuff to him on the phone she shouldn't had said.I realized i was wrong for letting my friend get on the phone and talking to him the way she did but i just wasn't thinking when it all happened. I have been calling his phone to say how sorry i am but he's not picking up i even called his sister's house but he said he didn't want to talk to me.I just don't understand why he's so mad at me that he doesn't even want to talk to me.when we first started talking he was the one that begged me to go out with him and when we did we made a whole bunch of plans and i'm just wondering if he can make all thoses promises and just throw our relationship away. People say to stop calling him that way he will come back but the truth is i miss him so bad and i want him back.I love him.not a day goes by without me not crying. He's the only person that calls my cell phone from private and two days in a row someone called my cell phone and my home phone from private but didn't leave a message.Is the first breaku up the final? and do i keep calling him until he talks to me. People,pls advice me.
Just Visiting Posted September 27, 2004 Posted September 27, 2004 You are going to have to stop contacting him. It hurts like hell, but you have to. He will come back when he is ready to talk. Sounds like he is dealing with unresolved feelings for his ex. If so, then understand that running after him is not going to help you at all. Do you really want someone whose feelings are not 100%?
re3rocks Posted September 27, 2004 Posted September 27, 2004 if itll make u feel any better, hes prolly hurtin too!
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