lastresort Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 Been a few weeks since I posted. Things are going strong. We haven't had any arguments. I still am working on jealousy issues but I try and keep them to myself. I just cooked a full meal and prepped it for her family for Mother's Day. I have no family here any more, they all have moved out of state. Makes these holidays hard. I love the fact that her family treats me like family. Be strong and don't give up on the ones you love. 7
SNH1993 Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 Just keep up the hard work man, it sounds as if things are going good and she just wants to take things slow. I have doubt in the back of my mind regarding my ex too, but we still talk, chill, cuddle etc. And at first i was in a panic mode when we broke up but i've realised that if she is still seeeing me as you ex is still seeing you that it shows they still have interest and are probably just wanting to take things slow. I see a lot of cynicism on this site regarding your ex wanting to hang out for ulterior motives and i think some of thse people are just bitter due to their past relationships. Don't listen and buy into that for now, you're doing ood so just keep doing what you are doing and take things slow. good luck buudy
crederer Posted May 13, 2013 Posted May 13, 2013 Good stuff. As far as the jealousy stuff is concerned, I wouldn't keep it to myself. You need to learn to communicate, just do it respectfully and not be judgmental. If you show that you are being jealous but controling yourself, and explaining why you have these feelings, it will probably benefit both of you, IMO. Sweeping things under the rug have a way of revealing themselves in a very ugly way.
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