bikeingtheus Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 So I am just a bit confused and wanted some advice. I have been dating a girl for almost 2 months now. Things have been going somewhat slow, which I wanted at first but I wouldnt mind getting more serious now. We usually see each other at least once a week sometimes more depending if we have time. I usually initiate all dates so far and for the most part plan them. I have also met her brother, aunt, and a couple cousins but not her parents. The weird thing is there are times where I hear from her a lot, like wake up and there is a text waiting for me, and contact throughout the day. Then there are periods of time where I can't seem to get anything out of her. This has happened a few times where I will text her and get two word responses with no convorsation. Each time I have figured that things were fizzaling out but then she changes and talks to me a lot. I just find it odd and somewhat annoying. I realize she has a busy life (although I do too). How do you take that? It is usually 2-3 days where I feel like she does not want to talk to me, either taking hours to respond to texts or just having a very short response. It somewhat bothers me. Am I just overthinking this as she might just be busy during these times? Or is this actually a problem? As a guy when I am interested in someone I have always been excited to hear from them and talk more even when I am busy. Is she just not that interested in me?
PogoStick Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 Do you kiss? Have you asked how she feels about you?
Author bikeingtheus Posted May 12, 2013 Author Posted May 12, 2013 Yes we kiss. After every date I give her a kiss and sometimes we make out for a bit before she leaves. As far as telling her how I feel earlier I told her I really enjoy spending time with her and think that she is really pretty. She told me she likes spending time with me as well. I may be overthinking this but wanted some advise.
todreaminblue Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 Yes we kiss. After every date I give her a kiss and sometimes we make out for a bit before she leaves. As far as telling her how I feel earlier I told her I really enjoy spending time with her and think that she is really pretty. She told me she likes spending time with me as well. I may be over thinking this but wanted some advise. if the dates when you go on them are comfortable and enjoyable ride it out a bit longer, i dont know why she takes hours to respond or gives short responses.....this thing actually drives me loco...a few people i really care about do it to me...ill sit down and write this really long message and it takes me forever poking at the buttons on my phone.....i hate texting....my phone will turn off three or four times and i will have to rewrite it from the beginning its a wonder my phone lives.....let alone texts.....and then i hit send....i get an okay back......or a yeah......and i sit there dumbfounded for a minute...mouth open....then i just have to laugh........it makes me laugh now.......smilin...ahem i can see the funny side..... if i were you i would not let it get you down.......it happens....lol....to me too....i just cant stop smilin....do you ever stare at your phone with your mouth open....i do... my best friend does it all the time she replies quickly but its yeah deb .....ok...when we are together we talk up a storm and laugh our littl eheads off...and someone else does it to me too.....some people are not big on text messages...and some of us write too much....the ignorance is harder to handle.......non return...but people get busy , forget where their phone is, lose their charger , lose their phone,their cat gets stuck on a telegraph pole adn they are busy on the phone waiting fro the fire brigade, reception is crap heaps of things happen or could happen for that hours to pass between messages...dont sweat it...ride it out and when you feel more comfortable talk to her ...when you feel the relationship has taken another step....maybe broach you would like to speak to her more....lol...sorry thinking about a single word after a 2 page text.... that word...........ok......... smilin...:bunny::bunny:..deb
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