Skipper888 Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 i miss my ex like crazy!! just driving in the car and just started crying. i loved her so bloody much! dont know how she could just leave. i dont know how she is not missing me? im breaking inside the though of never talking or seeing her again kills me. never kissing her again how can she not feel the same i just dont get it
rainmayker Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 Definitely how I felt a month ago when my ex dumped me. Didn't feel quite the same after I found out she had been talking to some guy while we were still together, and is now planning on "flying over" to see him.
WhatamIdoingwrong Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 i miss my ex like crazy!! just driving in the car and just started crying. i loved her so bloody much! dont know how she could just leave. i dont know how she is not missing me? im breaking inside the though of never talking or seeing her again kills me. never kissing her again how can she not feel the same i just dont get it I feel for you, I am in the same boat. Try and stay strong, its bloody hard, but I am trying to keep busy. We are all here for you on LS, so keep checking back, thats what I do, and it really helps you feel less alone.
whisperoftheheart Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 I dont know your full story. Chances are she is missing you, dependent on how long you guys were together. If you need answers for closure, then perhaps reach out when the time feels right. Otherwise take each day as it comes, distract yourself with new tasks and if she changes her mind then she'll be returning to an awesome version of you! If she doesn't then know SHES the one missing out, not you. 1
WhatamIdoingwrong Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 I hate to say it, but im not sure I agree about reaching out. EVERYTHING I have read on here has said the contrary, and I am inclined to agree with that. It hurts, I am struggling, but I am starting to realise that if I were to text her, and she didnt respond the hurt would reset to day 1. If she did respond, it would be something negative, because if she had something positive to say (like a bloody apology!), she would reach out to ME. Stick with NC, from where im sitting, its the ONLY way forward.
whisperoftheheart Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 Yeah, I agree with the concept of NC. Its definitely good for healing processes. Like I said when the times right you can reach out. Might be days, weeks, months. Or may never happen. In that way closure comes from within. 1
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