jonnykino Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 Made a thread in getting back together, but that ain't happening. Long story short. Me and this girl are both Christian. Started going out, and we did sexual stuff. She says she loves me, I don't say it back. We split up. She says she still likes me. She goes on a date. I try and win her back. She says no. I tell her am moving on. We end up doing stuff again. Says she resents the fact we did stuff. Other crap gets involved, and she hates me. She then tells me she's seeing someone. It's her best guy friend. It doesn't work out and she's now on the verge of going official with this new guy. We just had a text convo, first proper one in a while. Basically, she says she never meant it when she said she loved me, because she now knows what love is with this new guy - after a month. She wants to give him her all and wants to marry him. She's also said she can't think of a happy time with me and her and never wants anything to do with me again. Says we were incompatible etc., even though when we were going out she said we were perfect with each other?? Also blames me for what me and her did. Feel a bit crap right now.
swiftly333 Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 She sounds like she isn't in the right place and doesn't have her head on right..... You really are better off. And I doubt she'll be able to make a relationship with her head all screwed up. Keep doing you!
bob the brave Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 Holy @#@!, Ever find a knot that was so intertwined that you just couldn't untie it? Would did you do? You said, "**** it." and threw it away. This sounds like too complex a problem without a payoff. I know you would like things to just be good, but sometimes that happens in relationships. Neither person's fault. It's like hot sauce and ice cream are both good, but you wouldn't eat them together. You should feel like crap. Things didn't work out. We always feel like crap when things don't work out. That's natural. But dosen't sound like you did anything really bad. Just learn from our mistakes, chin up and on to the next! 1
SimonSerenade Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 She can't take those words back and one day she will really want to, doesn't sound like she's the stable type with a good head on her shoulders, sounds like the kind of girl who needs constant validation from lots of men, I think deep down she's still hung up on you, no way would she say stuff like that even if it was true unless she was well and truly evil, don't let her hurt you, think of this situation like she's a bee, yes she's probably good for all the stuff you love about her, that's her honey side but then she's also got a stinger so that honey aint worth ****!, in your shoes I would beat the bee with a shoe and leave it for dead cause it just won't worth your time and you deserve better.
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