smh124 Posted September 26, 2004 Posted September 26, 2004 After 3 weeks of NC, my ex gf text messaged last night. It was an inside joke that we used to have. How should I take this? Does she miss me?
AmazonUSA Posted September 26, 2004 Posted September 26, 2004 I would say it's her way of initiating contact. The motivation behind that is ambiguous at best right now. Maybe she misses you, maybe she feels bad, maybe she's lonely, maybe she got dissed by some a**h*** last night and she needs some reassurance that SOMEBODY still cares about her, maybe she questions her breaking up..... Us girls do a lot of things for completely emotional reasons and sometimes they don't make a whole lot of sense to you men folk! lol I would ignore it and wait another week to see if she'll do it again. Just me two cents. G
Notorious Posted September 26, 2004 Posted September 26, 2004 Originally posted by AmazonUSA Us girls do a lot of things for completely emotional reasons and sometimes they don't make a whole lot of sense to you men folk! lol G You don't say....LOL.
AmazonUSA Posted September 26, 2004 Posted September 26, 2004 Yeah I say Sometimes y'all need to quit reading so much into our actions - half the time WE don't why we do what we do! G
backspn Posted September 26, 2004 Posted September 26, 2004 Sometimes y'all need to quit reading so much into our actions - half the time WE don't why we do what we do! Now thats the first thing Ive agreed to all week.
seductress989 Posted September 27, 2004 Posted September 27, 2004 Being a girl and knowing how they think, I can probably tell you that she had a moment of weakness. I've been there myself. I moved to another town and miss my ex terribly. Everytime I do NC, for a couple of weeks, by then I'm dying to contact him. Usually, I'll text him or chat w/him for a couple of minutes b/c I'm lonely or missing him. But, don't overanalyze it either. That only makes it worse. Just see if she tries again and then ask what she wanted.
9Lives Posted September 27, 2004 Posted September 27, 2004 Excellent advise. I am in the same boat. My ex calls, did not leave a msge. I felt very uncomfortable so I did not answer. Made me miss him even more but I still will not call him. But damm,,,,I am suffering like hard. But I dont care. I rather suffer than give in to the bull. Eventually the suffering will stop
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