SalientPoint Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 So day 8 of NC is where it all goes to hell I guess. I felt like maybe I was doing better but today I just feel like a huge mess that wants to throw myself at her and beg her to change her mind (I'm not though because I know it wouldn't do any good). She sent me an e-mail yesterday with only my first name and 3 exclamation points behind it in the subject line and nothing else. No message, nothing. I didn't respond but now I'm so tempted just to send her an e-mail back with a question mark. I don't think I will, but I have the house to myself today as my Dad is spending the night with a friend, and absolutely nothing to do and not many friends up here, so I'm going crazy. Was being extremely good about not facebook or internet stalking but that all went to hell too. She changed all her profile pictures so maybe she has a new gf or something. I feel awful.
ConfusedT Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 DO NOT BREAK NC!! It is not worth it and you've came so far already! Do overanalyze her movements or her actions. Yes, you shouldn't stalk, it does hinder our healing a bit, but I know most people do do it. Just because you're broken up doesnt mean feelings have left. stay strong!!
CelticGibson Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 No don't do it. That email is to get a reaction out of you. There is nothing to be read from it other than that. Day 8 is still the early stages of No Contact and it's no surprise you feel this way. That's normal however you have to keep it going while getting yourself busy and getting out there. If you have nothing to do then work out, go for a walk, just get away from the computer and think about it.
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 Holy Shyte, SP, you better not. It will only make you feel worse!! Stay NC all the way. It is your only alternative. Post what you want to say here instead. I need a good read Stay strong. You can do this. You can!!
ViciousCycle Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 That email is so weird. Anyway, my advice is to look at the bigger picture. Have some patience. These issues don't get fixed quickly. The issues within yourself that caused her to separate are likely still there. Both of you need time. Take the focus to yourself. You're gonna be better, and maybe she will come back after your patient wait. Maybe not. You're gonna be better for it either way.
Author SalientPoint Posted May 12, 2013 Author Posted May 12, 2013 Thanks guys. Still fighting off the urge. Hopefully I will pass off out before I mess up.
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