Tdog123 Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Guys my ex just rang me askin if I can have our son tomorrow which I usually have him sundays anyway because she's at a christening, anyway we got done talkin and I text her afterwards saying can I pick him up from her mums who liives just across the road from her so she asked why I just said personal reasons to which she replied 'what? What you on about' I didn't reply then 5 minutes later she text saying: If u dnt wana see me then get your mum come for him at 10! Im not pisin about takin him my mums n ****! Now I'm struggling for a response to this, do I tell her I'm trying to move on and seeing her just sets me back that's the reason, or what should I say? What would be the best response to this? Thanks in advance
siankat Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 She knows so....if you dont wanna lose further face jsut say, 'ok one of us will be there to pick him up tomorrow' As if you have plans you are trying to change and it leaves it open still about who will. You cant expect her to dance to ur tune jsut cos u dont wanna see her. She probably wudnt even if she knew hte reason
Author Tdog123 Posted May 11, 2013 Author Posted May 11, 2013 Ok the reason she reacted like this is because all since we been broken up I've never been like this I have always gone to pick him up etc and all of a sudden I want to get him from her parents so its probably thrown her a bit. Its been 3 months since break up and I've decided its time I got over this girl she's moved on already and is with someone and seems oh so happy I guess its out of character for me to be like this
siankat Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 ah well, keep em guessing but seriously, if you can, don't throw curve balls like this if you have already been pickin up ur son from hers. Unless her parents is closer to u or an errand you have to run etc
Author Tdog123 Posted May 11, 2013 Author Posted May 11, 2013 Yea I know what you mean I don't mean to throw curve balls that's why I wondered if I should tell her straight the reason why so then she knows and doesn't think I'm just trying to be an ass or something. Thing is I love this girl to the moon and back but I know I can't be with her so I have to move on and having to see her just makes it more difficult to do that and her parents are literally a 10 second walk away from her house and I get on with them they love me so that's why I suggested that to her but she obviously doesn't wanna mess about doing that
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