Woohoo Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Don't you think she already knows, or at the very least, has considered it to be a moderate to strong possibility? It's not like she's going "Oh, there's no way he could dig me LIKE THAT." I do think for now, I need to shrink away slowly. That email would be last resort and if somehow things intensified. And yes, I do overthink things, lol. It's a hard habit to kick, unfortunately. I was born overanalyzing, lol. Just part of who I am. Well, just got to the party late. You are in a tough spot. Let's see if I can pull a solution. 1) You are obviously attracted to her. FACT! 2) You are reading body language, good! So what do we do. Put her to the test. Women love these annoying hypothetical questions, one's that we men hate. You know, the classic chick magazine, "If I was disfigured in a car accident would you still be attracted to me?" Type stuff. You can hit back with these types of questions. "If that girl over their went out with me, would you be jealous?" What if questions are mean, unfair, and totally fun.
TaraMaiden Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 Should he also ask her "Do you think your BF would mind me encroaching on taken territory...?"
KathyM Posted May 22, 2013 Posted May 22, 2013 I think you should send the Email confessing your feelings for her, and letting her know that you can't continue the friendship while having these feelings. I think that shows guts, and character, and women are attracted to that. I think it will make an impression on her--a good one, and maybe when she is available, she'll look you up. This hanging around wondering is not getting you anywhere. This looking for signs of interest and then being disappointed when you misread the signs is just too difficult. Put it out there (your feelings), and let the chips fall where they may. Either she'll be impressed with you for doing that, and possibly look you up when she is available, or she'll realize this friendship is not going to work and she'll end it. Either way is better than continuing on in a relationship that is one-sided. 1
xasianbankaix Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 Think I'm going through the same experience with a married woman. I fulfill a certain emotional need she has and she kinda hides me from her husband. I'm thinking it's an emotional affair, but I guess we shall see. Trying not to overthink it much.
Star Gazer Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 I would never call a guy I'm interested in "adorable," unless I was interested in him being my token gay friend. How emasculating.
TaraMaiden Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 Did he pee on her to lay claim to said territory? You never know.... some like that kind of thing. 1
underpants Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 "Adorable" I've been called this twice in my lifetime. It was a flag, a red one.
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