pofnin9 Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Ok everyone so I am just looking for some Input on what the heck you think is going on with my ex fiance. I am typing on my phone so it is difficult to go into to mich details but I can answer any questions you may have about us. She is 21 and I am 24 and we recently decided that I was going to propose to her after my graduation next week. (We talked about it because I wanted to see if we were both ready for such a big step.) Long story short at the start of March she said she needed space that she had begun to feel neglected and that we both were beging to take each other for granted. A few days later she told me that she slept with this guy from work because he was there to talk about us with her and he made her feel wanted. She admited that she was now seeing him on a physical basis. (It is worth noting that her roo mate who i am good friends with said that he is weird ugly etc and has nothing on me) So after talking and begging and the usual I went NC and have been doing well ever since. I have been bettering myself and realizing that this was a good learnIng opportunity for when I find the girl I truly deserve. Fastforward to today I was talking to her roommate who informmed me that she 'cheated' onthe new fwb guy and now had a new boyfriend who was even worse (ugly fat and rude) than fwb guy. I guess I am just wondering 1. Why do I care if in my mind the woman I loved no longer exists and I have been going entire days without even thinki g of her. And 2. Seriously, what the heck is going on with her? Aparently all she does is go to work then go to her boyfriend's house. She is suppose to be taking care of our cat but doesnt and just leaves her place an absolute mess. Her roommate hates her now and cant wait to move out in 2 weeks. But then when the roommate leaves I am worried aboutwho will look after our cat?
xpaperxcutx Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 She sounds like a serial cheater. You dodged a bullet. 1
Author pofnin9 Posted May 11, 2013 Author Posted May 11, 2013 I just also wanted to add that while she was with her new fwb I made the mistake of sleeping with her twice and then finally called it off telling her she shouldnt cheat on her 'new man' because in my head if I ever were to have the chance to take her back I wouldnt want to if she had cheated in any way. But I just do not understanf because for all the crazy things she has been doing she always has a reason to 'justify' it. For instance she told me that she started sleeping with fwb guy because she felt she needed to sleep with more people before we got e gaged and to 'just let her get it out of her system' she actually got mad when I got mad about this and said I wasnt going to wait around while she slept around!
aisuru Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Why do you care about a girl who is now sleeping around? She obviously doesn't care about you. STOP talking with her roommate. You will drive yourself crazy!!!!!! P.S. There is no such thing as "cheating" on your FWB. I know. Trust me.
Keenly Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 I just also wanted to add that while she was with her new fwb I made the mistake of sleeping with her twice and then finally called it off telling her she shouldnt cheat on her 'new man' because in my head if I ever were to have the chance to take her back I wouldnt want to if she had cheated in any way. But I just do not understanf because for all the crazy things she has been doing she always has a reason to 'justify' it. For instance she told me that she started sleeping with fwb guy because she felt she needed to sleep with more people before we got e gaged and to 'just let her get it out of her system' she actually got mad when I got mad about this and said I wasnt going to wait around while she slept around! You think this woman actually cares about being loyal?
Author pofnin9 Posted May 11, 2013 Author Posted May 11, 2013 Not at all and now I have such a hard time trusting anyone because I always thought that she was the most honest person I knew and would never cheat. I also no longer trust my judgement of people
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