singme2sleep Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Before our exes existed for us, life was fine. The world turned, the sun raised in the morning and set in the evening. We knew the world was full of people and we also relied on ourselves for happiness. Then we met them and eventually fell in love. Things were blissful and we were happy until we weren't anymore. They walked away. They broke our hearts! Suddenly it feels like there are no other fish in the sea. Suddenly we don't know how we'll ever be happy again. Suddenly we think love will never find us again. But we survived our whole lives before they came along...so there's the proof. We laughed. We smiled. We thrived. And we will again! 9
Damaged23 Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Yes!! You are so right!! If we were happy before them, we can be happy after them!! 1
travelonic Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 But we survived our whole lives before they came along...so there's the proof. We laughed. We smiled. We thrived. And we will again! But OF COURSE you don't exactly know/remember that *at that particular moment in time* for a very ... well... obvious reason.
mbee Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 You are so right. Everyday after the relationship ended, I keep trying to remember how I was before I met him. I could eat, sleep, pursue my goals and although I wanted to find someone who I could fall deeply in love with, I was still happy. It's just so hard getting in that place again. I'd love to know how long it takes for people to get back to that place where they can just be themselves again? 1
CelticGibson Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Whenever I feel down about it, I tend to think of the last time I felt this way about a previous ex. I then come to terms with the fact that I was able to get over them and move on, I will do so again. It's all a cycle of life. It has it's ups and downs and right now it's just a down part waiting to go up again... 3
Author singme2sleep Posted May 12, 2013 Author Posted May 12, 2013 Of course we aren't the same people we were before we met our exes, but who we have become is better because we're wiser!
Am4Real Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 You and I both know that one don't we... We are also sensitive, caring and loving and most of all respectful. So for all of us who are reading these BU posts understand this, the majority of perople here can and could have accepted their break-up, it was the cra*p*py way it was done or the deception that led up to the termination. If one day you are in the DUMPER seat, remember these times and remember to be decent, courageous and honest on the way out. It might save us all from having to read through a barage of hurting posts from another new member. Of course we aren't the same people we were before we met our exes, but who we have become is better because we're wiser! 1
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