TheVillageMisfit Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Hello all, so got a random question for you guys ... Do yall think GIGS last longer for say a 20-22 yr old with more options of fish in the sea than say a 24-25 yr old with less options and hopefully closer to full dating maturity? I'll hang up and listen! Oh and obviously everyone is different. This is just on average, per say.
SimonSerenade Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Hey, in my experience it happens more to the younger sort of person 20-22 years, I can't say I've ever been through anything like this and I'm 25, I just don't think there's all that much out there that's worth throwing a relationship away for, I think gigs is more common in someone in there very early 20s mostly because there realising there teen years are behind them, most people who didn't have much in those teen years tend to dump everything and start it up now, its a shallow option but you can't blame them for it, they don't know what there doing, my recent ex is going through something like this now, none of her excuses make sense to me, I'm not even sure it makes sense to her, she hadn't come back so I can't really comment on her but my ex of 3-4 years before her had it really bad, got it out of her system and after maybe 10 months started slowing crawling back, after about a year and a half there was no getting rid of her, don't just assume its gigs though and think there going to go out and do crazy stuff, sometimes it can just be about them wanting more freedom and time to there self and unfortunately the dumpee's just get in the way of that. 1
Pisces13 Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Hey, in my experience it happens more to the younger sort of person 20-22 years, I can't say I've ever been through anything like this and I'm 25, I just don't think there's all that much out there that's worth throwing a relationship away for, I think gigs is more common in someone in there very early 20s mostly because there realising there teen years are behind them, most people who didn't have much in those teen years tend to dump everything and start it up now, its a shallow option but you can't blame them for it, they don't know what there doing, my recent ex is going through something like this now, none of her excuses make sense to me, I'm not even sure it makes sense to her, she hadn't come back so I can't really comment on her but my ex of 3-4 years before her had it really bad, got it out of her system and after maybe 10 months started slowing crawling back, after about a year and a half there was no getting rid of her, don't just assume its gigs though and think there going to go out and do crazy stuff, sometimes it can just be about them wanting more freedom and time to there self and unfortunately the dumpee's just get in the way of that. Good post! I got the same deal from my ex (she is 20, I'm 26), and during the relationship she went through a few periods of depression where she said she no longer "felt like the same person", and she kept trying to reenact her late teen years to try and fix that. I guess eventually until where it lead us to today, which is broken up... You just need to give them their freedom and space, let them do their own thing while you go out and do yours. If they eventually decide to come back, then so be it, but if they don't, well just continue on living your life.
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Ha!!! You guys in your early to mid twenties are all spring chickens. No difference. Late twenties to thirties is where it begins to change. Not before. At least that's my experience!
denxnis Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Bro, she is letting other dudes put it in, do you really want those sloppy seconds, thirds, or however many people she fools around with? I know I'm better than that and don't sit around waiting for leftovers, I hope you are too.
SimonSerenade Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Good post! I got the same deal from my ex (she is 20, I'm 26), and during the relationship she went through a few periods of depression where she said she no longer "felt like the same person", and she kept trying to reenact her late teen years to try and fix that. I guess eventually until where it lead us to today, which is broken up... You just need to give them their freedom and space, let them do their own thing while you go out and do yours. If they eventually decide to come back, then so be it, but if they don't, well just continue on living your life. That's weird lol same situation with me, she would get really angry and give me the cold shoulder as if I didn't exist, she would say stuff like that often too, got dumped every other week or so until the final break up, she just never knew what she wanted, just hope she finds whatever that is now with me out of the picture, I think at times she got depressed a lot at the thought of turning 21, I geuss she just wants it to like it was back then before me and other commitments, women are just weird, when I went through my missing my childhood an teen years phase, I just downloaded some emulators and played the hell out of some old ass games men are so simple.
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