Liking someone, but not wanting to get into a relationship.....

[SierraMist]

Theres this girl that i am very close to, we both started out as friends but the more time we spent together the more we started to like each other. We both like each other coz we told each other that, but we both arent ready to get into a relationship. What should we both do about this? i am very confused, please help

[simple]

just go with the flow. simple as that. don't worry about a relationship. if you guys happened to get in one, would that be so bad? go day by day.

[alicia24]

definitely go with the flow. I am in the same exact situation. Sometimes things work better if you dont label them and just let things happen without being on a specific track.

[SierraMist]

OKay so ive decided to go with the flow, i like this girl but everytime i see her with other guys like friendly hugging or flirting i tend to get jealous and then i ignore her because of this. I know i have no right to get jealous because were not dating or anything but why do i feel this way? Seriosly...everytime i see her looking at other guys i just get so jealous deep inside but i dont show it and because of my jealousy i end up ignoring her for the rest of the day. Is there a way i can get over this?? and why do end up feeling this way? thanks

[Karlise13]

In other words, you don't want to 'be in a relationship' because then you'd lose your freedom, right?

 

But the thought of her being attracted to other guys pisses you off, right?

 

 

Well, as you said, you DON'T have any right to get pissed and you're acting like a big baby 'ignoring' her because you get jealous.

 

Either step up to the plate, let her know you'd like to take it up a notch, but take it slow.....

 

or keep her as a friend and let her flirt with whoever she wants.

 

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[SierraMist]

Its not the fact that i dont wanna get in a relationship because id lose my freedom, its because im not ready..right now i dont think i have what it takes to make her feel complete. Youre right maybe i am acting like a baby but thats why i want to know how to stop these negative emotions from happening. The fact is i know its wrong for me to feel this way...and i would like it to stop, any ideas?