Moemone Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Spoke to AP (not married committed) I ask him if he didnt have a gf would he make me his gf? He said No! I then ask would you marry me if we lived to see more years and he said no>> Hurt my feelings because this is someone I gave my heart and would have done anything for. I think I understand him because I dont feel like I would want more with him knowing what i know now bout him and his games. we have been on and off and his gf is coming back. I have made up my mind about moving on, his response said a lot. I get strength in that more stuff to keep reminding my self as i go through the journey. Any words of wisdom etc?? ould apreaciate.
2sure Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 You know what? You asked and he was honest, can't ask for more than that. For once, he wasn't playing a game. So, now you can be confident, walk away, and take the lesson with you. Don't date unavailable men. Some people just know this, but some of us have to learn it the hard way. Either way, now you know. 4
whichwayisup Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 At least now you know where you stand. I'm glad that you're going to walk away for good. It's time. Cry, cry and cry some more. Just know that it wasn't anything you did wrong.. He was already with someone and led you on as well, gave you hope. He's a real schmuck! Remember that! It hurts but hopefully sooner rather than later you'll see how much love and energy you wasted on someone who was already committed to someone else. You deserve a great (single) guy who you can have all to yourself. 1
Author Moemone Posted May 10, 2013 Author Posted May 10, 2013 I did learn the hard way! To much energy, tears and heart ache, he didnt deserve it and i guess I am to be blamed in some way, I got lost anf forgot that it was just an affair so i made him my number one when I was a number out of numbers. I ignore all the red lights. I am taking some time to heal and rebuild my self But i wont forget this pain.. It is a ver painful thing to be in an A relationship. NO REGRETS JUST LESSONS LEARNED!! I wouldnt do it again If the stars aligned or hell freezes over.
spice4life Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I did learn the hard way! To much energy, tears and heart ache, he didnt deserve it and i guess I am to be blamed in some way, I got lost anf forgot that it was just an affair so i made him my number one when I was a number out of numbers. I ignore all the red lights. I am taking some time to heal and rebuild my self But i wont forget this pain.. It is a ver painful thing to be in an A relationship. NO REGRETS JUST LESSONS LEARNED!! I wouldnt do it again If the stars aligned or hell freezes over. Good for you! He sounds like a real POS. You dodged a big bullet!
Author Moemone Posted May 10, 2013 Author Posted May 10, 2013 Getting there...lots of people made it through i will too
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