AKisBaked Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Let's hear people opinions on this topic. If you feel like you can communicate with your ex on a normal level and your emotionally stable with everything that has gone on with your life from since the BU up until this point and you have no hatred or anger towards the ex gf/bf anymore. Would you go ahead and allow them to talk to you? and would you allow yourself to talk to them also? I know there is a mixed opinion about this already but how would you go about this? Is there ever a good time to break NC and try to talk to them again? This may depend on the situation of course. Let's hear your opinions. I can start first. IMO I am close to giving up my NC and willing to talk to my ex again but at the same time I feel like I shouldn't bother in talking to her again. She has been calling me occasionally, for unknown reasons and I don't know what she wants because I never picked up her calls. But I feel curious about what is that she wants from me, since already its been so long that we've BU. I feel stable emotionally to talk to her without getting upset but I know its not the best choice to make if I do decided to talk to her again.
Treasa Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Meh, I'll respond to almost anyone. If I was over an ex, and they contacted me years later (which has happened), as long as they weren't an *******, I'll probably talk to them. I doubt it would go beyond acquaintance level, though.
Author AKisBaked Posted May 10, 2013 Author Posted May 10, 2013 Meh, I'll respond to almost anyone. If I was over an ex, and they contacted me years later (which has happened), as long as they weren't an *******, I'll probably talk to them. I doubt it would go beyond acquaintance level, though. True, I wouldn't go beyond acquaintance level either.
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