sa93bo Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I can't simply talk about our relationship. Every time I'm unhappy I just accept it because if I Ty to discuss it she turns it on me. So here's the situation... I don't have Facebook, my girlfriend does. She jokingly put herself in a relationship with one of her male friends. This really really bothers me! She said "what do you care? Nobody even believes its true, you know we're together and I love you, why do you care about what others think". I feel so disrespected, I want her to change this! Am I overreacting? I don't want to bring this issue up because I'm I don't want to start a stupid argument. I know everybody is going to tell me to leave her and I shouldn't have to feel disrespected -.- I guess I'm just venting frustration
Otty Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I can't simply talk about our relationship. Every time I'm unhappy I just accept it because if I Ty to discuss it she turns it on me. So here's the situation... I don't have Facebook, my girlfriend does. She jokingly put herself in a relationship with one of her male friends. This really really bothers me! She said "what do you care? Nobody even believes its true, you know we're together and I love you, why do you care about what others think". I feel so disrespected, I want her to change this! Am I overreacting? I don't want to bring this issue up because I'm I don't want to start a stupid argument. I know everybody is going to tell me to leave her and I shouldn't have to feel disrespected -.- I guess I'm just venting frustration Your girlfriend really likes attention and drama, plus she's either acting disrespectful or is totally clueless about the impact of her actions. Not saying you should leave her but personality traits like your girlfriend's tend to stay with a person, so you might find yourself frustrated often during your relationship. 1
Treasa Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Er, ok, I won't give advice if you're just venting. Do you feel better now? 1
MidwestUSA Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 She sure has no consideration or respect for you. It's up to you to decide what to do about it. And, as I always add, Facebook strikes again!
lamaga Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 Sounds like kindergarten to me. If she loves you and realizes it frustrates you if she does stuff like that, she should respect your feelings and not do this kind of stuff. And honestly, she sounds like she enjoys attention and drama.
FitChick Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 Ask her why she won't put you on her Facebook as being in a relationship with her, since she is telling YOU. Why is she afraid to tell everyone else?
Titania22 Posted May 12, 2013 Posted May 12, 2013 Ask her why she won't put you on her Facebook as being in a relationship with her, since she is telling YOU. Why is she afraid to tell everyone else? Isn't that because he doesn't have a facebook, don't both people need to be on there, to have the status?
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