Giha Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I wanted to delete her number from call history and accidentally called her. I hung up immediately so I don't think she even got a missed call. The thing is for some reason I'm now dying to call her. I want to hear her voice. I miss her. It has been no contact since she broke it off on Monday. This will be my first weekend alone since we got together and it's killing me. I've been doing relatively well until now and now I'm just dying to talk to her. I know I shouldn't but its hard to resist. God I'm so weak
SimonSerenade Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I know it's hard now dude but be firm with yourself, tell yourself to calm down and whatever you do, don't call her, I know right now your aching for a hearty response but trust me 99 times out of 100 it just doesn't happen and it pisses them off, forget you called her and keep on moving, that's all you can do, personally I'd recommend you take a break from your phone for a while and turn it off, I don't have my exs number saved anymore, I don't have a mobile phone either which I suppose makes it a little bit easier, the only way she can connect with me now is through playstation or turning up to my house, I don't mind talking to her from time to time but only when it's on her terms but if it ever got too much I would definitely block her, to me, she was my best friend so regardless of how I feel I know I'd feel worse I I shut her out all together so unless she talks to you and providing you can handle it, thats the only time you should talk to her, otherwise you'd be setting yourself up for some heart ache.
CelticGibson Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Delete the number. It's the only way to make sure you lose the urge to call her. Once that number is gone you know you won't have a choice but to accept that you cannot call. It sucks, I know, I have been there too but it does get better in time. The key is to stick to your guns and remain in No Contact until either she calls you to ask for another chance or you move on. It's a win win for you either way...
crederer Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Just curious, why are you so worried to call her? Do you think it'll be a set back for you?
Blckrooster46 Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Go run blow off steam or something it is way too early to call her or even connect to her in any way. This is coming from the guy who slept with her sweater and cried like a baby (I never cry) for a week after listening to her voice mails. You want her back ignore her and make yourself into the nest you possible it sounds dumb but I got a hair cut have started a new workout and diet regime (that i couldnt do before because she would want me to eat bad food with her) and am in great shape and feeling good about myself. Dude she dated you for a reason you are a catch, remember that. If you make yourself better one of two things will happen: what you want now, you get her back or you get on with life and realize not only are you over her but you are now even better off because of it.
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