Author DelusionalOne Posted May 10, 2013 Author Posted May 10, 2013 Did you post about this before and I missed it? That is crazy. It's only been what 3 months since YOUR A ended?? Do you know her? Ugh DO I'm sorry...hang in there. At least it's Friday! Yes I did. I was pretty upset about it. A bit over 3 months. I heard about the new OW about 8 weeks into NC.
Author DelusionalOne Posted May 10, 2013 Author Posted May 10, 2013 I apologize, I was not familiar with your story. I thought you meant you were saying tht you were going out of your way to consciously do things (outside of NC) to make him hate you. Please disregard my post...I admit I read it out of context. Please accept my sincerest apologies. No offense taken. I'm sorry if I was snarky.
spice4life Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 No offense taken. I'm sorry if I was snarky. You weren't at all. again, I'm sorry...just having an uber bad day!
Author DelusionalOne Posted May 10, 2013 Author Posted May 10, 2013 (edited) He is manipulating you. It's a ruse, one designed to get you riled up, reactive and to occupy head space. it's working. Shut it down. And this is what I don't get. Why? What is the point of this? He wanted out. I love and respected him enough to give him what he wanted. What is the point? To torture me because I'm not outwardly showing how upset I was/am? Was I supposed to lay in bed for months crying and sobbing? I gave him what he wanted. Edited May 10, 2013 by DelusionalOne
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