Perfidia Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I was in a five year relation and during this relation my girlfriend I found that my girlfriend cheated on me and go out with other men without telling me. She always denied that she cheated and we got into a lot of fights because all of these and because her constant lies. In these fights I said bad things to her and she always use this to said that I treated badly and that I was the worst boyfriend she ever had. I tried many time to leave her but I felt that she needed me since I help her financially and couldn’t leave her by herself She wanted to live together and I told her that I couldn’t commit to anything until I was sure that she will be faithful to me and I could trust her. She reset this and continue lying to me until I said to her that she shouldn’t expect anything serious from me. In the last year of our relation she treated me like **** but we had some things that needed to be taken care off like her visa and her daughter 15 birthday party that I paid for her and after this she dump me and said that she didn’t know what she felt and that I ruin the sentiment she had for me. After I beg her for two months to get back with me and offer her to live with me and marry me but she said that she was confused and that time with tell. After that I left her alone for another three months and when I contact her again she said that she was with someone else. Two months later she said that she still have feeling for me and we start seeing each other for one week making plans to live together and the she said that I would never be able to forgive her and broke up with me and got back with her boyfriend. One month after that she contact me again for some problems with her visa and we start seeing each other again for another week and then she said that his boyfriend is a dangerous person, that drug dealer and that he said to her that he is going to kill me and she leave again and even though she didn’t admit it she is with him again. Sorry for the long letter but I need someone to help get to my senses and forget about this women
siankat Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 You love her but she is no good for you. She will not change. You seem to be addicted to her and this relationship and determined to make it work. You have tried but some things are just out of your control and her yo-yoing in and out of your life is just compounding your feelings. You survive the lows and live for the highs. Get off that drug. Good luck
Author Perfidia Posted May 10, 2013 Author Posted May 10, 2013 Thank you for your response. You are right she is like I drug to me but I feel terrible when I’m not with her and knowing that she is with someone else. I don’t eat well and I have lost 24 pounds and don’t get enough sleep in all this time The worst part is that if she calls me again I probably would be back to her
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