ImperfectionisBeauty Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 So I have just been super bummed lately I mean not bummed but not fully happy. I REALLY REALLY REALLY want to talk to my ex, I want to text him so badly.. I miss him so much and it is weird because after we initially ended things I didn't really miss him, I felt like it was for the best and whatever. I literally was back on POF the night we ended things (and so was he). I just feel like I haven't ever connected with someone like that and I constantly replay all the stuff he said and the plans we had and I just can't get over it. I look at his fb a million times a day and like if he adds a new girl I want to cry. I feel like nothing is as good as when I was with him, I used to tell him EVERYTHING and now I have no one to tell all this funny crazy stuff to. I want to message him but at the same time I'm scared because we tried the friends thing and I said I didn't want to be friends because I didn't want to watch him date other girls and stuff because it hurts, I also don't want to not talk to him, he was like my bestfriend and I just haven't found that with any other guys. I am over POF and OKC because all the guys are ugly and the ones who aren't ugly aren't into me.. it just sucks. I graduate tomorrow morning and I imagined him being there or like he and I going to dinner after.. it just sucks. I have all these dates lined up to occupy myself but my heart just isn't in it. It isn't fair to those guys and I don't want to be that kind of person. I just want him, and now that I am graduating part of me wants to find a job in his town so then I can be like "hey! I work here now so show me around!" What can I do? Take a chance or just not?
swiftly333 Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Of course you think about him all the time you're constantly checking up on him and its not helping you at all, obviously. I think it's normal to feel lonely and miss the companionship. Is it him you want, or do you miss just having someone to share these moments with? Do you have a shot? I don't know. Who does? It depends on so many things: why you guys broke up, how you handled things, how he feels....but trust me, think long and hard an make sure it's worth trying, because its hard and potentially even more painful trying to get someone back! Really take inventory of your thoughts and feelings. Think it through. And proceed cautiously.
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