Jump to content

Well there went NC as he showed up at my door....


While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

Posted

Showed up at my door to give me some of my things back, i tried to shut the door but he just barged his way in and gave me the money & things he owed me. He then said well you wanted to talk right, so talk.. i said i have nothing to say, so then he proceeded to talk....

 

he apologized which made me start crying incessantly and then we started arguing because he called me "WEAK" because i was crying, so i told him to leave. he told me no and went and grabbed some of his things..

 

i sat on the couch waiting for him to leave, still crying and he came and held me and apologized again saying he just didnt care about me any more because i become weak and ugly since he met me...

thanks!

 

he left.. what a fn douchebag....

 

:(:(:(:(:(:(:(

Posted

what a wanker.....YOU didn't break no contact he forced his way in..... atleast you can take notice of the douchebag he is and why your better off with out him...stay strong x

Posted

What a selfish turd. He had no right to do that and totally showed you he disrespects you.

 

Dry your eyes and continue taking care of yourself.

Posted

You can't control other peoples' awful behavior. You can only control your own behavior or your reactions to other people. I think you handled yourself really well in the face of such mean spirited words. You are not weak because you feel emotions over the loss of something important in your life. Keep your head up, you maintained no contact and tried to do the best you could. This situation was out of your control. Be kinder to yourself. You are not ugly or weak. You are strong and a good person. Keep up the good work!!:D

Posted

what a setback. I would ask who it is the next time. You don't know what his crazy behind could of had done to you.

 

Send his stuff thru Fedex if there is anything left. He is such a jerk.

Posted

Are you serious?! First of all you're not weak and ugly. Right now you just have to recuperate and find your inner strength alone. Next time he shows up unannounced... use your peephole or window to see who it is first and tell that rat bastard he can go straight to Hades. FedEx the rest of his stuff because he doesn't deserve the right to see you vulnerable anymore. Many hugs sweetheart, we're here for you.

Posted

To quote Chi (I think)... What a Douche Rocket!!! Don't let this maggot get you down. Grrrr, I had when men act like this. F's it all up for the rest of us!

Posted

If it's any help, he said those things because that is how HE feels about himself on the inside. A strong balanced person doesn't need to say those things to feel better about themself. He obviously feels like a turd on the inside and was just tyring to make you feel that way.

  • Like 1
Posted

well, should be easy getting over him now .. what a total loser. like i can't even imagine someone actually saying that, and i've met some a**holes im my time. trust me, you're so much better off.

Posted

I think it takes strength for people to show their emotions. I'm a man and was raised by a very old school father. Never showed any emotions other than anger and on occasion, happiness.

 

Up until maybe 2 years ago I was the same. But I realized that I feel better about myself when I am in touch with emotions and let it all hang out. There's nothing to be ashamed of in that.

 

Also, wow, this guy is a total asshat.

Posted

A real man would never speak that way to a woman even if his attraction faded there are a million different ways he could have phrased that, that aren't so ****ing mean. You are better off believe me you want nothing to do with that poor excuse for a man.

Posted

I am so sorry to hear that. I hope you are doing okay right now. He is not a good person for you and sounds like an abusive jerk. Forcing himself into your door and saying those terrible things are clear signs of physical and emotional abuse. Trust me, you escaped something far worse.

Posted

im guessing you broke up with him?

He is angry and that is how he is getting you back..

×
×
  • Create New...