ohmystar12 Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 (edited) So sorry for the long a** post! I feel the need to really explain more better and to get the better answer---- We were together for two years and it was pretty serious with the fact that there were a "promising ring" relationship involved. Yes, we were so much in love, everybody could see that. But one year later, when we live together with our two other roommate, we argued so much and it pretty much drained our relationship. There is a time that my significant other will dumped me then apologized 'cause she was pissed and did not mean to said that out loud. And, of course, I accepted her apologize. We had so much tense, I guess its because we see each other 24/7 in our apartment. When our love excitement drained, she told me that she doesn't feel any "fire" between us. It hurts as hell to hear that, of course. Then a week later, she started to like somebody else. On and off. A month later after the apartment lease is over and we all go on our own path separately; she told me that she moved on. Later, she would get jealous about me seeing somebody else and pointed out "If I am going on a deep level with a person that I like after our break-up, how would you feel? Hurt, right? That's how I feel!" --- I never mention ONE word about me liking somebody else and she jumped into conclusion ---- . I was being blunt with her and told her that if she really moved on, she shouldn't care about if I am seeing somebody else. She say that she do care. Then she stop talking to me. For just couple of days... I did a NC rules but I think she know my game. She came over my home 4-5 times so far since after the break-up. And, recent, she was showing me few of her artworks on her phone then a text popped up with a name of "My baby" which indicated a person that she went for after she dumped me. I played along, of course. Then, somehow, she brought up the subject out of blue and lied, "I want you to know that the name on my phone "My baby" is my best friend, not the one that I liked. (Her best friend name started with C)" I knew that she lied so I just remain cool until other new message popped up on her phone which is the text from her best friend with the name of, "C". Her facial expression was so priceless after that happened. She told me that she feel like sh** for lying to me. It shows that she care. But seriously, if she really move on, WHY did she lie? Is she going through a rebound relationship with this person that she is current seeing? Because I feel like she is doing that to replace me. Or she is really moving on even though she say so herself? She mentioned once that talking about "us" does hurt her. --For my feelings toward her;; I love her so much. More than any of the finest thing in this world. --- Edited May 10, 2013 by ohmystar12 missing details
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