BrokenPrincess Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 This is a loving, devoted family man who loves his kid and wife. I think he responds well to me, and I'm confident he finds me at least somewhat attractive. I have his attention again, but now that it's summer, classes are already over, so I doubt I'll see him anywhere other than facebook. ANY advice on getting this man's attention? I feel VERY sure he isn't even thinking of me the way I am him! What if you post a bunch of provocative pictures on facebook and tag him in them? That would probably get his attention!
Summer Breeze Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I completely understand your confusion. Yes, this is a forum about people who are dating MM/MW and are trying to take them from their families (in many cases). These same OW/OM who judge you are engaged in exactly the same behavior you are pondering for yourself. They distinguish their behavior from yours by using a myriad of excuses, e.g. "it just happened", "he was separated/unhappy/unfulfilled/etc.", or my personal favorite, "the MM cajoled me into it". The fact is, these affair partners who feign shock at your boldness, are engaged in the same sleazy, immoral conduct for which they chastise you. The only difference between you and most of them is your blatant honesty about it. Don't get me wrong - I do not condone what you are contemplating. You will destroy many people should you pursue him and become successful. But don't let the OW on this thread bully you - they are no different than you. They are just lying to themselves. I'm not feigning shock, I'm feeling disgust. She hasn't entered an A so no one can judge her on that and from what I'm reading no one has. We all seem to be united in how cold and calculating she is about trying to persuade someone to become involved with her. Two separate issues in my mind.
2sure Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 To be honest, even if he is happily married, if you were that much better looking than his wife....you shouldn't have to be trying so hard. Is that what you're ashamed about? Maybe try working out , dressing differently, finding something interesting to talk about. Either that or you might need to rethink your league. 3
meat department Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Instead of focusing on this married man go out and find you a single man who would be interested in a fwb situation. That way you can have some strange and not destroy someone's family in the process. I was involved in a fwb situation with a married man who forgot to mention the married part. I was his strange. So find someone single, verify they are really single and go for it.
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