hw172 Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 My ex and I have been broken up since January. We talked almost everyday the entire month and about half of February. I kept and kept trying to go NC but was so hard, so had a few days here and there with NC. It's now been over a month, and last I heard was they had been together for about a month. She always said she could NEVER get back with him and knew it just couldn't work out. But she also said that she knew he loved her unconditionally. Honestly he seems a little needy and dependent on her. Would randomly call her after they had been broken up for months. Do you think this is a rebound on her part, or she is just returning to something that is comfortable? GIG? It's just hard to think she went back to her ex after me..
aisuru Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Is she back with an ex? If so, how long were they together? How long after their breakup did the two of you start dating? How long were the two of you together? Were you the rebound?
BustedUpInside Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 It really doesn't matter if it is a rebound or not because the result is still the same. She left you to be with somebody else. Whether or not it works out shouldn't concern you right now. Just focus on yourself and make sure you are living a good life and she will just have to take care of herself. 1
Author hw172 Posted May 10, 2013 Author Posted May 10, 2013 Is she back with an ex? If so, how long were they together? How long after their breakup did the two of you start dating? How long were the two of you together? Were you the rebound? Well she actually left him for someone else, who she never was official with. It didn't work out for whatever reason and then we got together about a month after that. She was with her ex about 2 years. We were together for about 7 months. She did tell me she loved me more than any of her other exes..but who knows..
Author hw172 Posted May 10, 2013 Author Posted May 10, 2013 It really doesn't matter if it is a rebound or not because the result is still the same. She left you to be with somebody else. Whether or not it works out shouldn't concern you right now. Just focus on yourself and make sure you are living a good life and she will just have to take care of herself. Well i know what the result is, but it would be nice to have a better idea of why this is the result. Maybe she really thinks they are meant to be and that's how it's going to be, or maybe she was looking for comfort. Honestly I am okay with either one, because I actually do just want her to be happy. So if he makes her more happy, great. But I would also like to know if she is the type to just jump from guy to guy. I didn't ever think she was, but if this new relationship is a rebound, it would appear she can't be happy alone.. which isn't good.
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