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fancy feast Established Member

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Jesus, this got real. Everyone take a step back from the internets.

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cavalier99 Established Member

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I don't think what the dude did means he has issues lol. In all honesty, I think what he did is common. I think you're taking all this to heart. Yea, I think he is still in love with his ex, but who cares? She was obviously a big part of his life, and NOBODY wants to be alone.

 

As men, we always want to have the comfort of a woman around. No one wants to be alone, period.

 

Pop a xanax and chill.

 

Thanks. I agree with everthing except being IN LOVE with ex part.

 

Ill "always love her a little" and care for her. But that is all that is left. Cav

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You can disagree with someone's approach without the insults.

 

Can you believe the reaction this thread got! Lol. :)

 

I guess i went out with a bang! Lol Your awesome bro ive always appreciated your advise and help you know. Your friend! Cav

 

ps look like jags posts and mine responding got removed. Hope he is ok and didnt get suspended.

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jags2bowl27 Established Member

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im fine, just think what you did to your current girl is wrong.. just please dont come back on here when the new relationship fails

McDonald Established Member

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yea if I heard my new gf just "cuddled" with her ex... she would be out the door. Sorry but it would be too disrespectful towards me.

 

But---- maybe you can hookup withyour ex. and this new GF at the same time!!

 

Thats the alcohol talking

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cavalier99 Established Member

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im fine, just think what you did to your current girl is wrong.. just please dont come back on here when the new relationship fails

 

Im perfecly fine with everything. Quite pleased. Are you ok????

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cavalier99 Established Member

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yea if I heard my new gf just "cuddled" with her ex... she would be out the door. Sorry but it would be too disrespectful towards me.

 

But---- maybe you can hookup withyour ex. and this new GF at the same time!!

 

Thats the alcohol talking

 

Good thing you never found out! Lol :) Cav

McDonald Established Member

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Lol well I don't have a new girlfriend haha. Just saying.

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Am4Real Established Member

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Stop playing games with yourself and this forum.

 

You are far being indifferent to her. You are nowhere near over her. Yes, you may have progressed from the human wreck you were back in November, but driving by her work just as she came out, was PLANNED. Sending her an “I saw you text” or something to the sort, was PLANNED in order to set up the next round of communications.

 

That communication led drinks and dinner and whatever else and a subtle fantasy of you and her being together. Again, PLANNED.

 

So please, you can be honest here and I do not condemn your actions, you are human and prone to all sorts of things, but professing you are indifferent and over her is one big line of doo-doo.

 

Now that you picked the healed scab off your wound, what is PLANNED next?

 

Another meeting?

 

The occasional text messages?

 

Phone calls?

 

What breadcrumbs are being laid out for you or are you going to go after her for a second chance?

 

I can appreciate you telling us you want to make a move for her and a second chance; actually I would respect you and your guts for giving it a go.

 

But please don’t claim indifference and behave in ways of the complete opposite. You don’t need to sell us CAV, we’ve seen pretty much all there is around here on LS over the years.

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Reaching out to the ex coincides with finding another gf. BS it was done to prove to yourself you're over her. it was done to tell her about your new gf to see if it would make her jealous and come back.

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cavalier99 Established Member

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Ok Amreal and ameile and the rest of doubters

 

Hahaha you guys are killing me. Im getting bored with all of this.

 

there is no conspiracy or devious plan. I mean it would make a good movie if there was. But lets get grounded in reality here.

 

So ill say it again. Im busy with new girl. I dont want back with the ex. Im totally chilled.

 

is everyone here this stupid???? Ive said this a ton. I know how i feel. I guess eveyone is so screwed up by their respective BU's they cant see or think straight. You guys are the one that are in a world of hurt now. Your judgment cant be trusted at this point mine can.

 

Obviously the BU formum people cant handle anything futher than "stay NC to recover" my mistake for posting to the newly heart broken about this. Lesson learned.

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CptSaveAho Established Member

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People that are over their exs don't create threads talking about meeting their exs

 

People that are over their exs don't meet their exs

 

People that are over their exs don't cuddle with their exs

 

Contrary to the bs you're spewing, no matter how you spin this you aren't over here.

 

The difference between a normal person and an idiot is the normal person can admit that they aren't over their ex in a healthy way and post about it honestly on the forum.

 

Time to grow up and look in a mirror

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People that are over their exs don't create threads talking about meeting their exs

 

People that are over their exs don't meet their exs

 

People that are over their exs don't cuddle with their exs

 

Contrary to the bs you're spewing, no matter how you spin this you aren't over here.

 

The difference between a normal person and an idiot is the normal person can admit that they aren't over their ex in a healthy way and post about it honestly on the forum.

 

Time to grow up and look in a mirror

 

Hahaha ..really...ok ho master!

 

truth be told im actually crying in a ball curled up in the closet right now about to slit my wrists....the contact with the ex was sooooo heart wrenching.

 

Does that lie sound more believable? Why dont we just go with that so you can get off my back.

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cav is one of the least controversial members here.

 

until now. :lmao:

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cavalier99 Established Member

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cav is one of the least controversial members here.

 

until now. :lmao:

 

So true. My real friends here believe me. Ive got a ton of PMs from the normal people who have know me. Thanks NA.

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People that are over their exs don't create threads talking about meeting their exs

 

People that are over their exs don't meet their exs

 

People that are over their exs don't cuddle with their exs

 

Contrary to the bs you're spewing, no matter how you spin this you aren't over here.

 

The difference between a normal person and an idiot is the normal person can admit that they aren't over their ex in a healthy way and post about it honestly on the forum.

 

Time to grow up and look in a mirror

 

Apparently your wrong ..again! All this is possible!

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I think you're just a guy who's trying to have a good time honestly (albeit with an ex when you have a new girlfriend so I'm not saying your actions are justified). I don't know this for a fact, but I'd say your beyond "over" your ex on the emotional sense. If being over your ex means you never speak to them again and disregard them as a person for the rest of your life then everyone else is right. You aren't "over her".

 

but I think that's kind of silly. Especially when you gave this girl 8 years of your life.

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I think you're just a guy who's trying to have a good time honestly (albeit with an ex when you have a new girlfriend so I'm not saying your actions are justified). I don't know this for a fact, but I'd say your beyond "over" your ex on the emotional sense. If being over your ex means you never speak to them again and disregard them as a person for the rest of your life then everyone else is right. You aren't "over her".

 

but I think that's kind of silly. Especially when you gave this girl 8 years of your life.

 

Thank you NA! Fianlly A voice of reason. Yes im beyond over her emotionally. I just wonder why that is so hard for everyone to believe. Do i want to catch up for coffee with her every 6 month or so. Sure.

 

i want her to get pregnant and married to new guy. She always wanted baby. Ill be happy for her.

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Cav,

 

Knock this crap off or one of us going to knock the CAV out of you! LOL

 

Look, we know what image you are touting, it's okay, we get it, but you can't preach and sit in the pue (pew) at the same time.

 

And for the record, the way you're posting now, your post should be in either COPING or SECOND CHANCES.

 

I'm leaning towards the latter and beleive you are contemplating your next move with the EX.

 

We finally got McGriff to be honest and now Tara and I want the same from you.

 

Last chance... :p

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cavalier99 Established Member

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Ugh ..Im done and i give up. thanks all. Cav

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Cav,

 

Knock this crap off or one of us going to knock the CAV out of you! LOL

 

Look, we know what image you are touting, it's okay, we get it, but you can't preach and sit in the pue (pew) at the same time.

 

And for the record, the way you're posting now, your post should be in either COPING or SECOND CHANCES.

 

I'm leaning towards the latter and beleive you are contemplating your next move with the EX.

 

We finally got McGriff to be honest and now Tara and I want the same from you.

 

Last chance... :p

 

Give it a rest. As for Tara has sat this one out for the most part. For as much as she is known for her militant-no contact policy, she has a great read for how a poster's psyche is. She's been a lot more forgiving of Cav than most people that have commented ITT.

 

You've made your point. Honestly, this is getting ridiculous. The only thing sketchy with what he did was the presence of the new girlfriend, which is something he has acknowledged. Yes, he's somewhat diminished that part of it at times (mostly due to being attacked and getting defensive). But beyond this you (and several other posters) are making a mountain out of a damn molehill.

 

Just because you break up with someone doesn't mean they have to be completely excommunicated from your life forever. I mean, I have several ex-girlfriends that are Facebook friends, some of whom I still communicate with from time to time, but I have no interest in getting back with them nor does contact with them set me back in any way, shape or form. This is something that several posters don't understand. They get so sullen, so bitter, so cynical from the break and the NC that they lose all capacity for next-level thought.

 

Cav doesn't owe you a damn thing. He doesn't owe me a damn thing. The dude is a hell of a lot more upfront with what he's going through than most posters on here (myself included) and for that he's getting s--t on. You, and several other posters, have made your points. Move on. Judging on Cav's posting history, is there any doubt that he'll be honest if slips up from here on out? So stop trying to elicit a confession and back off.

 

/whiteknighting

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McDonald Established Member

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So how about them dodgers? Ending that 8 game losing streak

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Am4Real Established Member

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Ahhhh, that's so sweet!!!

 

Give it a rest. As for Tara has sat this one out for the most part. For as much as she is known for her militant-no contact policy, she has a great read for how a poster's psyche is. She's been a lot more forgiving of Cav than most people that have commented ITT.

 

You've made your point. Honestly, this is getting ridiculous. The only thing sketchy with what he did was the presence of the new girlfriend, which is something he has acknowledged. Yes, he's somewhat diminished that part of it at times (mostly due to being attacked and getting defensive). But beyond this you (and several other posters) are making a mountain out of a damn molehill.

 

Just because you break up with someone doesn't mean they have to be completely excommunicated from your life forever. I mean, I have several ex-girlfriends that are Facebook friends, some of whom I still communicate with from time to time, but I have no interest in getting back with them nor does contact with them set me back in any way, shape or form. This is something that several posters don't understand. They get so sullen, so bitter, so cynical from the break and the NC that they lose all capacity for next-level thought.

 

Cav doesn't owe you a damn thing. He doesn't owe me a damn thing. The dude is a hell of a lot more upfront with what he's going through than most posters on here (myself included) and for that he's getting s--t on. You, and several other posters, have made your points. Move on. Judging on Cav's posting history, is there any doubt that he'll be honest if slips up from here on out? So stop trying to elicit a confession and back off.

 

/whiteknighting

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...... cav . Agreed. better this thread end. It is going nowhere and serves no purpose now.

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