JessieJ08 Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Ok my man I been with for awhile has A bunch of girl friends which normally I wouldn't have an issue with but these girls are either exes or females he has slept with before me or females who have put cheating on the table... When I see these girls saying things that I feel shouldn't be things they should be talking to him about he would argue and yell, he even had the nerve to say he feels like he is walking on egg shells cus I don't want him talking to these type of females. -I can tell you a few short situations one woman was married and was trying to get him to cheat with her friend. I said he should have deleted her he absolutely refuses I have not been ok even tho he doesn't talk to her now everyday it still bothers me because she wrote him while deployed by the way and said she needed to go to the hospital because she couldn't keep anything down?? He told me some lame excuse saying they have a buddy system I still think its weird Idk Point is he refuses to get rid of females that aren't good to be around when your in a relationship I have thought of adding the married woman because 2 years straight this has nagged at me and add to it a lot of other incidents I went thru with him. I wanted to add her to ask why she was even suggesting her friend to him Idk how can I go about this situation I hate contacting other females about stuff but Idk he lies I have caught him and I just want truths for my sanity?
Ninjainpajamas Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Your guy definitely sounds like a liar and possible cheater...in fact I'd personally bet he has already. All these relationships couldn't just be platonic, I'd have to be extremely naive to believe that. You're not going to change him though, you're not going to get the security you're looking for, he's not going to give up his back-up options nor is he going to want to stop talking to them, and he'll tell you anything he has to in order to prove that.
Author JessieJ08 Posted May 10, 2013 Author Posted May 10, 2013 Yes that's exactly how I feel I was looking at some way to ignore it and forgive and forget but my gut til this day would never let me. I left him tonight and tho I'm very sad about it I realized the little bit of happiness I ever felt while we were together was always short something always was there. I kept holding on also because I have a child with him. He was talking marriage but as soon as I. Say I want him to delete them he says I don't taalk to them blah blah your being drama insecure so on idk if he ever cheated but looking back at it all he could have and lied. Some how the argument turned into him telling me she suggested her friend because he went to her about all of our issues. This is the 3rd time he has turned to females for advice. Just can't do it anymore I always deserved way more then I put up with.:-(
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