desperategirl Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 Longish story ...got asked out by a guy, had a great date. He then moved 150 miles away (temporary move). I am sometimes in his city, because I work there very occasionally. He blew off our third date, but then contacted me emailed (which I ignored) then text to reorganize. I decided to accept, and we had another nice evening. He cooked, we talked (we click quite well - I really enjy talking, and we have lots to talk about and laugh about). We weren't really in touch for the four weeks between date two and three, but there wasn't really any awkwardness on date three. On date three, we ended up sleeping together. He seemed a little shy and awkward, and had a couple of issues which I think may have been performance-anxiety related. On the whole though, it was quite good for the first couple of times. He didn't seem to be bothered by losing and regaining an erection several times during. We talked after, it was nice. We had a nice time in the morning. He said he'd like to meet up again. He messaged me later that day to say thank you etc. Now...I can see how this really just seems like it's abiut the sex, but the thing that confuses me is that he wants to see some of my work (I'm a writer) and was keen to re-iterate that I send it to him. He also offered that I could see some of his. He said he wanted to meet again. The other thing is...he just doesn't seem suave, smooth or experienced enough to just be after sex. But it sounds like he is. If he was interested in more, he'd be in touch more, right? Could this be about the distance thing? He seems to want to keep something going, and it definitely feels like a meeting of minds, but he's so flaky between dates, maybe he just doesn't care? Any help appreciated! Thanks!
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