Kevin Kristopher Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 My ex-girlfriend has gotten a new boyfriend so the best thing i could do is never talk to her again. So its been like a month and a half an all of a sudden she calls me last night but i tell her i don't want to talk to her then she starts crying and asks me why we can't talk to each other and all thatbut i see no purpose in talking to her but. What do i do? what does this mean? She has a boyfriend but he is in san diego and we're in arizona, why doesn't she just talk to him or something, why is she calling me? someone please help,
supermom Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 Shes probably lonely and missing you and/or her bf. Is there anyway you could be friends with her? How long were you together and why did you break up?
Author Kevin Kristopher Posted September 25, 2004 Author Posted September 25, 2004 hey thanx for the reply, can we be friends, yes but it is hard, i found out she had a boyfriend and it didn't really hurt as much as i thought but it was a wake up call for me. Me knowing that she had a boyfriend finally you could say put my mind at ease about thinking about getting back together u could say and it has allowed me to move on. we've been broken up for about almost a year and a half but before like 4 to 5 months ago we would do stuff like we were still together and have sex but she didn't want to get back together with me. so that was the hard part, dealing with seeing everyday but she wasn't mine and it hurt. we broke up becuz of the constant fights we would get into and me just acting different towards her i can't explain it but i sort of wanted the best of both worlds, i wanted to have her to myself but didn't really want a girlfriend anymore or atleast just for a little bit. she was my first girlfriend but it was too perfect and it became scary. so we mutually decided to cool out then i got really jealous cuz i saw another guys number in her phone and i flipped out and wanted to get back together but she didn't want to and thats when it all started. I know i f*cked up but i moved on now but she called me last night crying an stuff cuz she realized i didn't ever want to talk to her again. She used me as a crutch to meet some new and thats what makes me not want to be friends or atleast friends that talk, tell whats up with my situation pleez
backspn Posted September 26, 2004 Posted September 26, 2004 Be her friend til you cant do it anymore.
Merin Posted September 26, 2004 Posted September 26, 2004 Be honest with her. When she calls and asks why the two of you can't still talk, tell her that because you have feelings for her that are stronger than just friends that it is to difficult for you at this time to be that for her.
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