trevjim Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 My mates girlfriend set me up with a work friend of hers for a double date. It went really well. She asked for my number before I could get hers and we kissed and she told me she wishes she could of stayed out longer and wants to see me again. I text her the next couple of days, we just sent a few back and forth. I then asked her does she want to go out again. She didn't reply until 24 hours later saying 'yea sounds good' I waited a few hours and said 'does this time and day sound ok?' And two days later she hasn't replied. Now normally I would be thinking she isn't interested and hasn't got the guts to tell me, but my mate told me she has been telling his girlfriend she likes me and wants to meet up again. I'm not sure what to think about it, I don't want to text again as that would seem desperate would it not? She may be busy but I'm sure she isn't so busy she can't find the time to respond to a text in 2 days.
BluEyeL Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 I would call her and ask her directly. It's not desperate.
Cutiepie1976 Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 Next time, if things are going well, set up the next date at the end of the first one. Here, I would cut to the chase and call her to work out the details. Either that or ping pong back and forth in a cloud of uncertainty for weeks on text to suggest potential details while someone else comes along, grabs her attention because he's more decisive, and starts dating her.
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