would she have made more of an effort if she really wanted me?

[Skipper888]

Hi guys i was wondering about ex that dump you. Short story first. Ex dumped me 4 months ago, she was lost and confused and had feelings for some

one else she worked with. ( we were in LDR ). Anyways we were in LC for a while the usual i miss u etc. After about a month we started texting FC again and planned to hang out once. It was amazing, anyways few

more weeks went on, she ended things again then came back. Started FC again she came to see me when her mum n stuff flew out .. was amazing again, then she went out the next weekend with her mates ( n probably the guy she had feelings for) anyway i felt bad and sad about it all and she seemed distant and non responsive kind of. Anyways she never reinforced me that the guy wasnt there or ever said she wanted me back or anything of the nature. I know she went out that night clubbing she never sent me a text or nothing and then she went campin and claimed to have no reception even though i rang her. Yep anyways 4 days went without her contacting me then she did and seemed fine but i had this thoughts in the back of my head i was getting played and all this stuff. I talked to her about what has been happening ie hooking up. She said yes she has with a random guy, anyway she seemed to be mad at me asking things went bad and yeah she stopped talking to me and ended it again, after she went to a music festival the next weekend with her mates again.

 

 

I was just wanting to know. If an ex really wanted you back and wanted you to trust her again would they make more of an effort that would she did or did i over react?

 

She ended things and said i would never be able yo trust her and was sick of the emotional rollercoaster.

 

I have been 3 days NC and yeah im good just in a stage of regret and over thinking. what makes it worse is the weekend is coming up and she id probably going out clubbing again

[Skipper888]

Just kind of realised that my ex envied her friends single life. All she talked about was how this boy liked her friend but she was interested in this other boy. eh Pretty much my ex wanted to be a single slut who could go out and flirt and do whatever she wanted without feeling guilty.

 

While her friends were out partying every weekend and had funny stories to tell, while my gf and i were doing couplerly things like shopping for furniture or having a cute breakfast somewhere.

 

In a LDR and she got curious about what it was like being single in a town were there are 90% boys (mining town). All this stuff about feeling lost and confused was all lies just excuses to pretty much say i dont love you id rather go out and kiss and sleep with boys.

 

BITCH!

[CelticGibson]

"would she have made more of an effort if she really wanted me?"

 

Yes. Go NC and move on. There are plenty of other girls who will want you the way you want them.