Author joystickd Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 Yea, we're funny that way. I imagine it would be confusing if the guy thought that having a rep as a playboy was supposed to help him... especially if his idea of 'revenge' is to go out and get him a FWB. okey dokey... Wasn't really revenge. I was just horny. It's funny because this 50 year old woman would look at me and say oh i had sex last week. I mean we both talked about that. It's just she delved more into what I did.
Author joystickd Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 Yea, we're funny that way. I imagine it would be confusing if the guy thought that having a rep as a playboy was supposed to help him... especially if his idea of 'revenge' is to go out and get him a FWB. okey dokey... I don't really even have the rep of a playboy lol.
carhill Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 If you had the 'rep' of a playboy, a healthy woman who didn't care to be involved with a playboy would tell you that, straight up. 'You're widely known to be a playboy and I have no interest in dating one. Goodbye.' No ambiguity. No inconsistency. Keep looking. 1
phineas Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 They just want the attention op. A woman who wants a man will move mountains & blow off her friends & family before risking him getting away. Only two reasons for a woman to act like that. 1. she's into you. 2. she's bat-chit crazy. No sane woman would act like she was into a guy when she wasn't far as I'm concerned. Laugh it off, troll them. Tell them to come over for movie night & to wear something sexy. Anything but i'm on my way from them = silence from you. I love seeing if I can get them to rage. They also usually leave you alone after that.
Author joystickd Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 They just want the attention op. A woman who wants a man will move mountains & blow off her friends & family before risking him getting away. Only two reasons for a woman to act like that. 1. she's into you. 2. she's bat-chit crazy. No sane woman would act like she was into a guy when she wasn't far as I'm concerned. Laugh it off, troll them. Tell them to come over for movie night & to wear something sexy. Anything but i'm on my way from them = silence from you. I love seeing if I can get them to rage. They also usually leave you alone after that. Funny thing is women at work said the same two reasons
phineas Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 Funny thing is women at work said the same two reasons where do you think I got it from? LOL!
Author joystickd Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 Its just frustrating dealing with people that cant be straight with you.
RedRobin Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 If you had the 'rep' of a playboy, a healthy woman who didn't care to be involved with a playboy would tell you that, straight up. 'You're widely known to be a playboy and I have no interest in dating one. Goodbye.' No ambiguity. No inconsistency. Keep looking. Not if they worked with him. There is still a need to save face in those situations... and not directly insult him. The OP claims to want to change his ways, and maybe he has been pitching that to the co-workers. Maybe he's even shown some signs of doing that... Then when things get tough, he falls off the wagon and goes and has himself a FWB. So he can't really blame people for not wanting to take a chance on him... or being wary. He should be thankful that they even considered going out with him, IMHO.
phineas Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 Its just frustrating dealing with people that cant be straight with you. It is. A good portion of women out there will lead a guy on & waste his time if he will let them. They know what their doing, they know it's wrong also because if you ever confronted a woman to her face for leading you on and wasting your time they can't even look you in the damn eyes. The really sad thing is I constantly meet women in their early 40's who pull this crap & I laugh because they really don't have anything to offer a guy other than their looks. And those aren't going to last for too much longer unless they put some serious effort into staying in shape.
phineas Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 Not if they worked with him. There is still a need to save face in those situations... and not directly insult him. The OP claims to want to change his ways, and maybe he has been pitching that to the co-workers. Maybe he's even shown some signs of doing that... Then when things get tough, he falls off the wagon and goes and has himself a FWB. So he can't really blame people for not wanting to take a chance on him... or being wary. He should be thankful that they even considered going out with him, IMHO. women are just as big of player's as men these days. Did you miss the part where op stated one of the women bragged she had sex? She isn't in a relationship so how is she any different than op? She isn't. She's on the same level as he is.
Mrlonelyone Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 Then when things get tough, he falls off the wagon and goes and has himself a FWB. So he can't really blame people for not wanting to take a chance on him... or being wary. He should be thankful that they even considered going out with him, IMHO. May I ask, would he be more successful if after a rough break with a coworker he moped around and acted devastated? Do women want men to act broken by them? I'm just curious how this works. They just want the attention op. A woman who wants a man will move mountains & blow off her friends & family before risking him getting away. Only two reasons for a woman to act like that. 1. she's into you. 2. she's bat-chit crazy. *I would still add. 3.) She checked up on you and found out something awful.
Author joystickd Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 May I ask, would he be more successful if after a rough break with a coworker he moped around and acted devastated? Do women want men to act broken by them? I'm just curious how this works. *I would still add. 3.) She checked up on you and found out something awful. I know the only thing the 50 year old knows is that I had sex with a married women in the parking lot of the job about 2 years ago. She was one of the first people to hear about it 2 years ago. I know the other one I think the thing that may ruin that is the rumors that the 50 year old is jealous. She is 24 and one of the residents at my job told her good things about me and told her I would make a great boyfriends. I have a few residents wanting to fix me up with someone.
Author joystickd Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 (edited) Not if they worked with him. There is still a need to save face in those situations... and not directly insult him. The OP claims to want to change his ways, and maybe he has been pitching that to the co-workers. Maybe he's even shown some signs of doing that... Then when things get tough, he falls off the wagon and goes and has himself a FWB. So he can't really blame people for not wanting to take a chance on him... or being wary. He should be thankful that they even considered going out with him, IMHO. Thankful lol. Honestly the only reason she knew about the FWB was because she asked. I kept it real and told her no one is waiting around to decide what you want. I known that one for 2 years. She's the one asking me is it an employee and I told her no. I do what I do. When I play I play and when I want a relationship that is what I want I don't do the in between. What the hell you want me hung up on her the whole time waiting around like a sucker when there are other women that want me? Does that sound logical? The funny this is what I did two years ago and the crazy actions of the 50 year old has given me more attention that I have ever had. These women come to me I don't go to them. As a matter of fact the one that asked another employee about me when I talk to her I have one in her 40s always trying to cockblock. She wants to get at me too. Like I said before Red Robin you have to check your own gender too. Some of them are trying hard out there to throw me the P. Edited May 15, 2013 by joystickd
Author joystickd Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 women are just as big of player's as men these days. Did you miss the part where op stated one of the women bragged she had sex? She isn't in a relationship so how is she any different than op? She isn't. She's on the same level as he is. Women are players the thing that helps them is men know their role and rarely deviate from it. Men get caught because every woman they are with wants to be number1
Author joystickd Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 (edited) You want to know something messed up. The 50 year old come out and said she never felt an attraction for me. All i could say was that it would have been nice to know that a long time ago. I said she wasted my time. She apologized so i will give her that. Edited May 15, 2013 by joystickd
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