joystickd Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 Recently I have had experience of dealing with two inconsistent females. One says she likes me. I heard it out of her own mouth and she has told other people. She doesn't hide the fact. I mean people that know us say she is jealous of other women that talk to me. When I stated how I feel and put the ball in her court I get "I need to think about it" or "I need to figure out what I want". If you have to do all this then you want me. Why the BS? Another is one when she first came to my job she was checking for me. I mean she asked other employees about me. I had conversations with her about interests and other things. When I stepped to her and asked her out. I got the response she had issues with her baby's father. I mean hell he is engaged. What's the problem? Why even waste the energy to find out about me if you are not willing to even go out on a date? Who the f**k does that? Why women do you act like you are interested to the point others notice then when the man asks you out or says how he feel you give some BS excuse? I'm in a bad mood today. F**kin women.
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 (edited) Women say one thing and do another. Edited May 9, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 1
Author joystickd Posted May 9, 2013 Author Posted May 9, 2013 To me its a waste of time to do all that
apple OR orange Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 If women make excuses to your face then there not interested in you, they feel they cant say this to your face though. "i need to think about it", means "i dont like you, i hope you go away, or allow me to use you for abit, however you cant call me on it as i said i am thinking about it". Generally something like "ok, i'll check back in 2 weeks then and go from there", your find almost 100% of the time when you "get back to them" it will be a no as they HAVE to answer you.
Author joystickd Posted May 14, 2013 Author Posted May 14, 2013 I had been frustrated with both of these women so I went found someone else and did a FWB. I had some issues with that. I told the one that said she liked me. She didn't say nothing for a few days then hinted at wanting me to take her to a baseball game that we both won tickets too. The next day I asked and she said we will talk about it later. Then she asked if a CNA was my FWB I said no and told her no one has time to wait for her and she should make up her mind. All she could say is "I'm confused". I just don't have the patience anymore for single women for real. Then they wonder why I do what I do. It's because of BS like this
fadedblues Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 I had been frustrated with both of these women so I went found someone else and did a FWB. I had some issues with that. I told the one that said she liked me. She didn't say nothing for a few days then hinted at wanting me to take her to a baseball game that we both won tickets too. The next day I asked and she said we will talk about it later. Then she asked if a CNA was my FWB I said no and told her no one has time to wait for her and she should make up her mind. All she could say is "I'm confused". I just don't have the patience anymore for single women for real. Then they wonder why I do what I do. It's because of BS like this Not all single women do this I have not personally had interest in someone then refused them, neither have my single friends. 1
Author joystickd Posted May 14, 2013 Author Posted May 14, 2013 Not all single women do this I have not personally had interest in someone then refused them, neither have my single friends. Lately this has been happening to me a lot.
fadedblues Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 Lately this has been happening to me a lot. You just haven't met the right woman yet,I know it sounds cliche', you will, don't turn nasty, there will always be fickle women, as there will always be fickle men. Not all of us are fickle or change our minds at the drop of a hat,to me, those type of women or men are not worth your anger or your time.At least they didn't waste any more of your time, that you now, have that time available, to pursue the right one for you. Don't give up.
Author joystickd Posted May 14, 2013 Author Posted May 14, 2013 You just haven't met the right woman yet,I know it sounds cliche', you will, don't turn nasty, there will always be fickle women, as there will always be fickle men. Not all of us are fickle or change our minds at the drop of a hat,to me, those type of women or men are not worth your anger or your time.At least they didn't waste any more of your time, that you now, have that time available, to pursue the right one for you. Don't give up. I just don't have the patience for it anymore honestly. I spent up until 25 constantly rejected then finally saw some success but with married women or women already in relationships. I got tired of that and want single women but its a struggle. There is so much BS with single women
xxoo Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 It sounds like they like you, and are attracted to you, but don't trust you. They want you but don't think they should be with you. 1
Chief Wiggum Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 A lot of women -- especially the good looking ones -- are spoilt for choice. They may show interest in you, but they hold back from giving you definite answers because they have to assess all of their options. A lot if them then fall into the trap of not knowing quite what they want, and end up keeping people on stand-by; giving inconsistent answers/vibes. I've learned to be firm with my approach, with a "take me now or you'll miss your chance" attitude. Because if you're the guy who'll always be an option for her, then you'll just continue being pushed to the back of cue because she'll know you're not going anywhere. 1
BoneyHadger Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 Just because they might be interested in initial "getting to know", doesn't mean they are automatically interested in getting together. May be that you didn't make them want it enough or may be that they don't want to either way and just want a bit of attention from you without anything more.
Author joystickd Posted May 14, 2013 Author Posted May 14, 2013 It sounds like they like you, and are attracted to you, but don't trust you. They want you but don't think they should be with you. Crazy concept. Either they want me or they don't no BS. The one that has to think about it. She texted me today saying I acted weird so I just put it out there and asked are you thinking or just giving me the runaround. She said Just want to be friends.....sorry. I asked why she didn't say that from the beginning and she said she had, but all she said was I'll think about it or some variation of that. Plus her actions came off that she wanted more to the point other people had noticed. I told her that. I told her I never would have acted the way I did had I actually known and seen that you wanted to be friends. She said nothing because she know it's the truth. Her own friends even called her on it, but she don't know I know This is a perfect example men of why you don't chase. It's BS single women are so fickle it's ridiculous.
StanMusial Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 Not only this, but women are inconsistent in what they say and what they say. Women is mysterious creatures. 1
Author joystickd Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 Not only this, but women are inconsistent in what they say and what they say. Women is mysterious creatures. hell yeah this too and when you call them on it they have nothing to say
todreaminblue Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 hell yeah this too and when you call them on it they have nothing to say i am curious.........what are you calling us out on........deb
StanMusial Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 hell yeah this too and when you call them on it they have nothing to say LOL. Because to them, it makes perfect sense.
Author joystickd Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 i am curious.........what are you calling us out on........deb this is what i'm talking about: Crazy concept. Either they want me or they don't no BS. The one that has to think about it. She texted me today saying I acted weird so I just put it out there and asked are you thinking or just giving me the runaround. She said Just want to be friends.....sorry. I asked why she didn't say that from the beginning and she said she had, but all she said was I'll think about it or some variation of that. Plus her actions came off that she wanted more to the point other people had noticed. I told her that. I told her I never would have acted the way I did had I actually known and seen that you wanted to be friends. She said nothing because she know it's the truth. Her own friends even called her on it, but she don't know I know This is a perfect example men of why you don't chase. It's BS single women are so fickle it's ridiculous. I called her out and she said nothing 1
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 Recently I have had experience of dealing with two inconsistent females. One says she likes me. I heard it out of her own mouth and she has told other people. She doesn't hide the fact. I mean people that know us say she is jealous of other women that talk to me. When I stated how I feel and put the ball in her court I get "I need to think about it" or "I need to figure out what I want". If you have to do all this then you want me. Why the BS? Another is one when she first came to my job she was checking for me. I mean she asked other employees about me. I had conversations with her about interests and other things. When I stepped to her and asked her out. I got the response she had issues with her baby's father. I mean hell he is engaged. What's the problem? Why even waste the energy to find out about me if you are not willing to even go out on a date? Who the f**k does that? Why women do you act like you are interested to the point others notice then when the man asks you out or says how he feel you give some BS excuse? I'm in a bad mood today. F**kin women. Don't get stressed about it. This is completely normal. Stop taking what women say at face value. Don't even pay attention to what they do. Just do whatever you want all the time and stop caring. 1
Mrlonelyone Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 It sounds like they like you, and are attracted to you, but don't trust you. They want you but don't think they should be with you. In my experience the thing that Joystickd is experiencing with women is this. They like you, but they aren't sure if it's OK to like you. They want you but they don't know if they should want you. Women, especially youthful ones, want to know that they are making the right choice. They don't just go with their own feelings, they want to know if other people think you are a good choice. That is why they check up on you with others. They want to know what others think of you. They are interested but to others thing you're a catch? They are interested but would anyone else date you? They are interested but are you socially acceptable? Depending on the answers you may not get any play at all. ' ' be their secret man on the side. ' ' be made their boyfriend. Any other possibilities you can immagine.
Author joystickd Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 In my experience the thing that Joystickd is experiencing with women is this. They like you, but they aren't sure if it's OK to like you. They want you but they don't know if they should want you. Women, especially youthful ones, want to know that they are making the right choice. They don't just go with their own feelings, they want to know if other people think you are a good choice. That is why they check up on you with others. They want to know what others think of you. They are interested but to others thing you're a catch? They are interested but would anyone else date you? They are interested but are you socially acceptable? Depending on the answers you may not get any play at all. ' ' be their secret man on the side. ' ' be made their boyfriend. Any other possibilities you can immagine. The one in the first scenario is 50 and has known me for two years. the second one this reason would be possible
xxoo Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 At 50, a woman is old enough to know that sleeping with a man might not be a good idea, even though she is attracted to him. We don't simply follow our groins. We use our brains, too. How much do these women know about your sex life? If you have a rep as a playboy, that will be a reason that a woman might choose to pass...even if she things you're hot.
RedRobin Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 At 50, a woman is old enough to know that sleeping with a man might not be a good idea, even though she is attracted to him. We don't simply follow our groins. We use our brains, too. How much do these women know about your sex life? If you have a rep as a playboy, that will be a reason that a woman might choose to pass...even if she things you're hot. Yea, we're funny that way. I imagine it would be confusing if the guy thought that having a rep as a playboy was supposed to help him... especially if his idea of 'revenge' is to go out and get him a FWB. okey dokey...
carhill Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 Why? Try genetics, socialization and because they can, with emphasis on the last one. Then imagine being married to one. I wish you well in that pursuit.
Author joystickd Posted May 15, 2013 Author Posted May 15, 2013 At 50, a woman is old enough to know that sleeping with a man might not be a good idea, even though she is attracted to him. We don't simply follow our groins. We use our brains, too. How much do these women know about your sex life? If you have a rep as a playboy, that will be a reason that a woman might choose to pass...even if she things you're hot. I put it out there and showed that I wanted more than sex with the 50 year old. I'm kind of hurt by her now. I just got frustrated and asked was she giving me the runaround. I put what happened on here. I actually was congruent with my words and actions. I have a rep possibly. I know at the job they hear about my penis and me getting head in the parking lot 2 years ago. I mean she knew about this. There were friends of hers that called her out on being inconsistent. That she got jealous that another employee was being friendly with me.
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