sam10321 Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 SORRY THIS IS REALLY LONG I NEED HELP PLEASE!!!! Okay, so I have a crush on my guy friend and he USED to show signs that he liked me and now I am not so sure. For the past week and a half he has been acting differently towards me than usual. He crosses his arms at me (when I have my arm over my stomach, grabbing it) and he seems to be sad. He teases me a lot (which he does with everyone) however out of the girls on our bus who have known him longer, he doesn't do it to them as much. He turns his back to me a lot especially if we are walking with friends. It is like he makes a point of walking in front of me turned away while i talk to Tamara. He USED to laugh at all my jokes (good and bad) and now he doesn't. Also, He just started texting me again. (He had asked a friend for my number for a prank and then told me to my face he blocked it). He says things like: COCU? (can u come out) when we are hanging with friends. I wait about a minute before i text him back, and then he responds almost instantly (when he starts the convo when i start it he never responds). We just started smiling at eachother in school, and first he gives me a fake evil look, the laughs and says JK. He is kinda a flirt but doesnt realize it. If I am talking to Tamara and not him he never talks with us. And often turns around to talk to her instead of me. He maintains eye contact with me and sometimes looks out of the corner of his eye (a quick dart at the wall or the front of the class). He blushes...occasionally, and at lunch sometimes i see him looking at me. about 2 weeks ago he turned his whole body around when i got up to talk to my friends, then cnotinued to watch me from the corner ofhis eye. my gut feeling is different each day for me, but idk...ANY ADVICE?
lamaga Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 Can I ask you how old you are? What you describe just sounds very immature. The guy's behavior reminds me of the guys in my high school who just didn't care about girls at all and just played whoever came their way. In my opinion you seem to young to have a meaningful relationship. But if you really like this guy, why don't you tell him and seriously ask him if he likes you back? All these situations you describe in detail, which you analyze like crazy and try to find out if he is into you - I bet he is not even thinking one minute about any of his actions the way you do. Please don't get your heart broken and concentrate on your school work
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