ConfusedT Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Complete NC day 2.. Harder than day 1, but I'm going through it. Havent heard from him all day so it makes me kinda sad, but I am still going through it... How did you get through the first whole week of NC? Whats the best plan day by day?? Im sad sitting here staring at all his crap, laying on his damn bed...
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Complete NC day 2.. Harder than day 1, but I'm going through it. Havent heard from him all day so it makes me kinda sad, but I am still going through it... How did you get through the first whole week of NC? Whats the best plan day by day?? Im sad sitting here staring at all his crap, laying on his damn bed... Dig deep!!! This is critical for your healing. You must find a way!! Have you been in contact since your join date on LS? 1
Author ConfusedT Posted May 9, 2013 Author Posted May 9, 2013 Oh no, we broke up one week ago yesterday, spoke all week and i just started NC yesterday after he sent me 4 texts, even with trigger points that I wanted to respond to, but stopped myself. He's sent me nothing today and its sad not seeing it, but i know its not right...
andre84 Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 To be completely honest with you... My first week after the last time I saw her and It finally hit me that we were done forever... I spent mostly on the phone with my family/close friends just crying my heart out (I never knew I could cry so much). As a man its definitely not a proud moment lol. Well it was mostly the first 3-4 days. Day 1-2 I cried almost none stop... At least thats how It felt. It slowly gets better...obviously it takes a lot of time depending on how long your RS lasted/how serious/ and many other factors. Just know that you are not alone and its natural to feel whatever you are feeling right now.
OwlSoul Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 How did you get through the first whole week of NC? Whats the best plan day by day?? Be really mad, move from your home for a week to spend it with a family member or a friend, change your mobile number and do not use Internet. < = worked well for me.
eachcomingnight Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 I went NC immediately after breakup so it was the first week post-break-up for me... A lot of crying!! I let my close friends know that I would appreciate being out/away from home as much as possible (yes, I cried in plenty of bars/restaurants, no shame in it!!) I tried to keep myself occupied in any way possible although I remember it was hard to focus I treated myself to basically anything I felt like (moving slowly in the morning? took a cab instead of the bus... bought ice cream... basically didn't penny pinch for a while afterwards) It feels like it will never end but it WILL. However you can't waste too much energy fighting the feelings.... You need to go through this process as awful and painstaking as it is, and the goal is just to get through it. Good luck!!
Author ConfusedT Posted May 10, 2013 Author Posted May 10, 2013 Thanks everyone. My NC ended today, i am going to make a post about it if you care to read..... :/
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