bornbroken Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Long story short, my ex broke up with me a few weeks ago. She said I was the love of her life but I hurt her. I have tried to get a second chance but she turned me down based on the hurt I had caused but says she is not angry at me. My question is, if I really was the love of her life and I hurt her, shouldn't she be angry with me? Instead, she is being really nice even though she won't take me back! I don't want her to be angry, but it just seems odd that she isn't?
soccerrprp Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 A few possibilities: 1. You really weren't the love of her life and moving on is easier 1.5. You really weren't the love of her life, but she's already found someone else to fill the void 2. You may have been the love of her life, but she's already found someone else to fill the void 3. She's a very strong and forgiving person 4. She's really hurt and is doing her darnest to hide her true disappointment 5. She's really hurt, but she is also very proud and will not allow you to see weakness Just some thoughts... 1
Author bornbroken Posted May 8, 2013 Author Posted May 8, 2013 Just some further info...she says she loves me, she feels hurt and all she thinks about is me. She says I am what her heart wants but she can't be with me anymore... Yet she is being really nice and isn't angry. She seems to be taking it really well. I don't know why, but something does not feel right and alarm bells are ringing....
Divasu Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Maybe she is in a state of shock? That, or zombies have taken her hostage.
TigerCub Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 I am in the situation your ex is. My bf really hurt me, we broke up,I love him, but it's just not going to work, so although I don't want us to try anymore, that doesn't mean that I'm angry at him or that I think he's a bad person deserving of my wrath. There is no one else - so that's not the reason I'm not angry. I'm just hurt, sad, and emotionally exhausted and I know he didn't do things to hurt me on purpose, so there is no need to be angry with him. These things happen.
siankat Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 I was similarly nice to my ex after he did wrong and that was BECAUSE i loved and respected him...but it was over.
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