Flutterbyme Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Not wanting to talk to ex but want his stuff gone and mine back 4 months before the break of our relationship we moved separately to save money etc. Then my boyfriend changed when he moved in with his cousins and uncle , wanted to drink more and go out be a boy an not have to think about me his girlfriend. I realise yesterday I have some of his things at mine and his dad has okay sounds stupid.. A Hoover from when we moved out but that Hoover was my NANs who passed away. I want it back. I text his dad asking if I could collect it from him however my ex has a part for it and we are on day 4 break up day4 no contact and would hate to talk to him now. And his dad was fine said I was no bother and he would text my ex about getting this part and I could meet him tomorrow to collect it from him and at this point I shall give his dad my example stuff I don't want lingering round. Good or bad? I'm not sure how my ex will take this but seriously he's caused me enough pain. Share
ForeverHopeful1 Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 I dont think there is anything wrong with meeting with someone to exchange things from your ex, especially if there is a good reason not to see one another. Not all couples can break up, and see one another when exchanging items. Sometimes, it is better to have a good friend, or family member who is willing to facilitate a hand off of personal items after a break up.
Author Flutterbyme Posted May 8, 2013 Author Posted May 8, 2013 Thank you, this has made me feel better x
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