blueman Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 ok so about two weeks ago my best buddy and i are eating out and he is telling me about all his cousins hot friends. I am laughing and listening to him and decide to ask him what his cousin looks like? He tells me that she is 18 5 ft 6 130 brown hair blue eyes and then says id prolly get along great with her. So i am like " ok give me her number ill call her to say hi" i call her and we chat the next three night about everything and we just click so we decide to hang out on a friday. I pick her up and we spend about 5 hours together first going to lunch then hanging out at the beach with some of my friends then we get back to my house and i show her the tour of my place. We are in my room and one thing led to another and we made out. She was very nice with me and when i dropped her off later she seemed very eager to hang out again. But thats when it all stopped. We decided to hang out the next day where i would pick her up around 6 and we would hang out. The catch is i was supposed to hang with some friends of mine but told them we could chill on sunday so that i could hang out with this girl. Well i told her i was going to be late and that is when she told me she was going to dinner with a friend and that shed call me after to meet up. She did and we met up and after about 10 minutes she said she had to go home? I was shocked and hurt but said ok. she said she was sorry and i told her that she basically ditched me to go hang out with other people because thats what she did. Anyways the next couple of days she calls me but is different on the phone not really happy very quiet and whenever i mention us hanging out she is like very distant and on top of that she rarely is calling me. When we were first talking she would call me like 4 times a day now she calls me like once every 2 days. what is going on? why is she doing this? should i just move on and forget about it?
Merin Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 Originally posted by blueman ok so about two weeks ago my best buddy and i are eating out and he is telling me about all his cousins hot friends. I am laughing and listening to him and decide to ask him what his cousin looks like? He tells me that she is 18 5 ft 6 130 brown hair blue eyes and then says id prolly get along great with her. So i am like " ok give me her number ill call her to say hi" i call her and we chat the next three night about everything and we just click so we decide to hang out on a friday. I pick her up and we spend about 5 hours together first going to lunch then hanging out at the beach with some of my friends then we get back to my house and i show her the tour of my place. We are in my room and one thing led to another and we made out. She was very nice with me and when i dropped her off later she seemed very eager to hang out again. But thats when it all stopped. We decided to hang out the next day where i would pick her up around 6 and we would hang out. The catch is i was supposed to hang with some friends of mine but told them we could chill on sunday so that i could hang out with this girl. Well i told her i was going to be late and that is when she told me she was going to dinner with a friend and that shed call me after to meet up. She did and we met up and after about 10 minutes she said she had to go home? I was shocked and hurt but said ok. she said she was sorry and i told her that she basically ditched me to go hang out with other people because thats what she did. Anyways the next couple of days she calls me but is different on the phone not really happy very quiet and whenever i mention us hanging out she is like very distant and on top of that she rarely is calling me. When we were first talking she would call me like 4 times a day now she calls me like once every 2 days. what is going on? why is she doing this? should i just move on and forget about it? I don't know exactly whats up with her..... but I do think that a second time meeting with this girl (even though it was rude of her) it was a little to early to try to inspire that kind of guilt about her ditching you.... Just my opinion.
pedens001 Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 Hi blueman.. Are you sure your friends cousin is single?..I mean she may have a bf and just wanted to have some fun at your expense..certainly no excuse for it if she did.. but if she's not seeing anyone she may just be nervous cause you both went a little too far your first date together ..I would call her up and talk to her and see whats up .. Good luck and keep us posted on it
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