KatZee Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Today marks the one year anniversary of my breakup with my boyfriend. 365 days of introspection, 365 days of NC. In one mere year I've learned more about myself than I have in the previous 27. A year later, I can honestly say "thank you" to my ex for teaching me everything I know about myself. Some people come into your life as blessings others come into your life as lessons. I feel like I've just graduated with my Ph.D. 5
youngnlove89 Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Today marks the one year anniversary of my breakup with my boyfriend. 365 days of introspection, 365 days of NC. In one mere year I've learned more about myself than I have in the previous 27. A year later, I can honestly say "thank you" to my ex for teaching me everything I know about myself. Some people come into your life as blessings others come into your life as lessons. I feel like I've just graduated with my Ph.D. Awesome. Good to hear. Can't wait till I "graduate". Did it take you a full year to realize this? Or were you over him way before that?
Author KatZee Posted May 8, 2013 Author Posted May 8, 2013 Awesome. Good to hear. Can't wait till I "graduate". Did it take you a full year to realize this? Or were you over him way before that? Oh I've been over him for a long time. Like, 6-7 months?
youngnlove89 Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Oh I've been over him for a long time. Like, 6-7 months? So it didn't take you that long, did it?
th90 Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Some people come into your life as blessings others come into your life as lessons. Blessings in disguise 1
Author KatZee Posted May 8, 2013 Author Posted May 8, 2013 So it didn't take you that long, did it? No it didn't. Because I don't f.uck around, for lack of better words. If i say NC, thats exactly what i mean. and theres not going to be a break in it. I don't find limbo particularly appealing. I don't desire to be hurt and in pain any longer than necessary. He didn't want me? I held the door open for him as he left. I faced my pain, I endured the grief, I got through my emotions and I fought tooth and nail to move on from him. My life has done a complete 180. You will never find me sitting home or any of that mess. Moving on doesn't just happen, it's earned. The longer you putz around, the longer you remain unhappy and unsatisfied and bored and lonely and sad and all those negative things. 1
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