wifey69 Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 I'm a 24 year old black woman I am blessed up top and below and I love fashion and just dressing up for my husband and feeling good about the way I carry myself. Before I got married I dressed the same as I do now like a woman I never show my butt or my stomach I show some cleavage or my legs at the most I like short shorts who doesn't. But my husband wants my shorts to be a certain length wants me to show no cleavage doesn't want me to wear certain jeans because he says they show off my butt goes so far as to say you can see dimples in my butt through my jeans really?! Doesn't want me wearing certain underwear outside thongs g strings Lacy underwear. No sun dresses cause that makes my butt look big to him no skirts unless I have shorts under them. I can't even wear my heels cause it makes him look short and I'm already taller without them plus he says normal women don't wear heels unless their goin somewhere special. I can't even were womens bathingsuits only shorts and shirts no one pieces no to pieces because their like underwear to him. And I'm going to put in the fact that every female he was in a relationship with did him wrong many kind I ways I've never cheated on him don't plan on it I love this man I just want him to love me for me. So I have to ask ladies would u put up with this am I wrong or is he worng and what should I do?
KyRose Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 I'm a 24 year old black woman I am blessed up top and below and I love fashion and just dressing up for my husband and feeling good about the way I carry myself. Before I got married I dressed the same as I do now like a woman I never show my butt or my stomach I show some cleavage or my legs at the most I like short shorts who doesn't. But my husband wants my shorts to be a certain length wants me to show no cleavage doesn't want me to wear certain jeans because he says they show off my butt goes so far as to say you can see dimples in my butt through my jeans really?! Doesn't want me wearing certain underwear outside thongs g strings Lacy underwear. No sun dresses cause that makes my butt look big to him no skirts unless I have shorts under them. I can't even wear my heels cause it makes him look short and I'm already taller without them plus he says normal women don't wear heels unless their goin somewhere special. I can't even were womens bathingsuits only shorts and shirts no one pieces no to pieces because their like underwear to him. And I'm going to put in the fact that every female he was in a relationship with did him wrong many kind I ways I've never cheated on him don't plan on it I love this man I just want him to love me for me. So I have to ask ladies would u put up with this am I wrong or is he worng and what should I do? He is full of ****. Do you get to dictate how he dresses? 1
pink_sugar Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Hubby has no problem with what I wear unless it's something really inappropriate where everything is "hanging out". I only have to hear this sort of stuff from my mom and I don't even wear anything that revealing! 1
amaysngrace Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 As long as you're not dressing like a total slut I wouldn't worry about what he says you can or cannot wear. He's your husband not your dad. Wear what you want and if he doesn't like it tell him you want a divorce.
todreaminblue Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 I'm a 24 year old black woman I am blessed up top and below and I love fashion and just dressing up for my husband and feeling good about the way I carry myself. Before I got married I dressed the same as I do now like a woman I never show my butt or my stomach I show some cleavage or my legs at the most I like short shorts who doesn't. But my husband wants my shorts to be a certain length wants me to show no cleavage doesn't want me to wear certain jeans because he says they show off my butt goes so far as to say you can see dimples in my butt through my jeans really?! Doesn't want me wearing certain underwear outside thongs g strings Lacy underwear. No sun dresses cause that makes my butt look big to him no skirts unless I have shorts under them. I can't even wear my heels cause it makes him look short and I'm already taller without them plus he says normal women don't wear heels unless their goin somewhere special. I can't even were womens bathingsuits only shorts and shirts no one pieces no to pieces because their like underwear to him. And I'm going to put in the fact that every female he was in a relationship with did him wrong many kind I ways I've never cheated on him don't plan on it I love this man I just want him to love me for me. So I have to ask ladies would u put up with this am I wrong or is he worng and what should I do? lling I guess it comes down to how much you are willing to sacrifice, how much you are willing to sacrifice to stay with him......could you imagine your life without him...or without the jeans..whichever you cannot imagine your life without ....keep...the other can go............deb
TaraMaiden Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 How long have you been married? Was he like this before you got married?
Mr. Nibbles Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 I can't even were womens bathingsuits only shorts and shirts no one pieces no to pieces because their like underwear to him. Are you sure you're 24?
todreaminblue Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 is your man worth more than a bolt of cloth, or is he worth more than what those jeans cost, to me love is priceless and everything material is immaterial, its like comparing ten fields of wheat to just one bowl of cereal...... what you wear in form or dress, what or who is it you want to impress.....hugs...d.eb
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