hurricane495 Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 met this Girl a few weeks ago and She seems to really dig me and I dig her she is telling me about how she cant meet the right guy and wants to have a family someday we have alot in common so I gave her my number and was like what the hell so that nite she called me and caught me off guard.So I called her and got her voicemail left her a message and she called me right back and said she was in the bathroom. But she calls me atleast once a day if not more then the other nite she asked me what i drive( I work with her) and i was parked a distance from the building and and when she went to dinner she came back and parked right next to me.She also said to me so you have a child and I said yes which makes me think she has been asking around.But she is really sweet and beautiful and and I would like to get to know her better But I am getting the hint cause she keeps telling me she cant find that special someone and she doesnt think it ever will happen. What do you think? Is she Flirting? I havent dated in a while Got divorced a year ago So im a little rusty. By the way is it ok to ask her what she is looking for in a man or is that out of the question? I want to say things to her to make her know Im interested. And If she asks me why im asking her that what do I say? Thank you all In Advance
Merin Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 Why don't you just ask her out on a date? Nothing says "I'm interested in you" more than that.... I think it's okay to ask her what she is looking for in a guy.... AFTER you've at least asked her on a date.
Author hurricane495 Posted September 26, 2004 Author Posted September 26, 2004 Ok this is gonna sound stupid but she is a Patriots fan and I told her I am a dolphins fan and she said thats not good So I told her to call me yesterday and she said ok But never did.I hope she isnt gonna judge me for that and Do I call her or wait for her to call me?
kellyp1 Posted September 27, 2004 Posted September 27, 2004 I am a Dolphins fan too (pretty hard core) and the guy I am dating is a Raiders fan. It doesn't matter if it is someone you care about. We have fun with it (bet on games, records, etc.) and it makes us have a better relationship. How 'bout them 'Fins this year? Time to get a new coach!
Jilly10340 Posted September 27, 2004 Posted September 27, 2004 If she stops liking you because you have conflicting sports team infatuations, then that's just weird. In fact, that's a little creepy. I really wouldn't worry about that. Just call her...
Author hurricane495 Posted September 27, 2004 Author Posted September 27, 2004 I did call her today and Still have not received a call back Im hoping that she just went away for the weekend and Isnt gonna be ignorant like that I should not be Judged by that But for the great guy and Dad that I am
Author hurricane495 Posted October 5, 2004 Author Posted October 5, 2004 Well We talk all the time on the phone and she told me she is has been screwed in all of her relationships so she doesnt go lookin for guys but if something happens it happens she is always calling me and talking to me for sometimes hours asking me personal questions etc etc Is it safe to say she isnt interested? Im confused I really like her and I believe she likes me But im getting mixed signals
Author hurricane495 Posted October 12, 2004 Author Posted October 12, 2004 Well we play phone tag alot and when we finally talk to eachother we sometimes talk for hours and some times talk for minutes But she will tell me to call her so When I do sometimes I get a voicemail and leave a message but sometimes she doesnt call back So I dont want to stalk her so I sometimes wont call back for a day or so Is she playing hard to get or Am I wasting my time. Sunday she asked me if we were still going out this weekend and I said yes so I am a little confused I dont want to be lead on cause that has happened to many times to me
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