maturityassets Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 One day at a time. To be demonized by the person you loved after they dumped you is hard. I did all the right things in our relationship
crederer Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Not as good as you apparently lol. I'm feeling very resentful and angry the last 2 or so days. I don't want to feel this way, but I can't help it. I don't want her to have that power.
portableversion Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 I had a dream about my divorce early this morning and when I woke my pillow was not wet with tears and then too ive started my new job. The pay is less but im really liking it. The weather was nice today.
hw172 Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 I too have been very resentful towards my ex for everything she put me through. The fact that she abandoned me the day after my birthday when i was already going through a tough time in my life is hard to let go of. I chased her like crazy and now regret it. People, DON'T chase if you get dumped, you will regret it. On a positive note, I randomly got a Snapchat from her today after over a month of NC. Having the strength to just delete it is a good feeling. If you are familiar with this app, it's where you send random pictures to users and after 5 seconds is auto deletes. You can also see if the user viewed it or not. I just deleted it. I can't afford a setback. Here is a link to something that has helped me quite a bit. What I really like is the fact that you should NEVER respond to an exes minimal effort contact attempts. They are just seeing if you're still around when doing so. If they truly wanted to get back with you, they would call and have a very sincere conversation. Not send a text saying "how are you" or some other weak form of social media. Hope this helps. 10 Core Breakup Boundaries That Every Person Should Live By | Baggage Reclaim by Natalie Lue
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