Confused420 Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Hi My ex finished with me mid way through November and I went NC and blocked her on FB around the end of December. Since then, we haven't really spoke at all, save for a few times when I needed to get some money that she borrowed back off of her (I unblocked her and planned to message her on FB but she blocked me before I could send it so I reached her by email). A week or two ago, she unblocked me on Facebook but didn't message me or add me. I think she realised that I was commenting on a mutual friends status that we were both tagged in and must have been curious as to what I was saying. I just shrugged it off and left it, I'd say I'm about 95% over her and I'm definitely ready to move on and have been doing so after 2/3 months of being pretty depressed. After she gave me my money, I told her it would be cool to catch up with each other. Ftr, I don't want her back at all, I don't trust her enough anymore, not to mention I never want to to do long distance again but I do miss her as a friend. However, she just ignored me. Then, last night, she sent me an email asking if I still have a sentimental gift she gave me. Basically, we were in a LDR and she gave me a book she made as a child and wrote a message in it for me. I have friends in the town where she lives and will be visiting for 4 months this summer, so chances are I'm going to bump into her. I don't remember throwing it away but I don't know where it is, so I told her this. She said her 'my family are mad because I gave it away lol'. I replied 'I can bring it back when I come over if you want it and I can find it?' I don't really want to block her or start ignoring her because of the fact we'll probably see each other over summer and I would like to rekindle a friendship but it does seem like a weird email to send out of the blue, about a month after ignoring me asking to catch up. Judging by her new profile pic, she has a new boyfriend but I'm not sure. Is she just genuinely interested in whether I have this book or is this her way of trying to initiate a conversation? Any thoughts/advice is welcome.
cdt76 Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Yeah, she gave you a special childhood thing and she wants it back. That's all. Mail it to her. It won't do you any good to see her.
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