hppr Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 The OP should figure out why she can't get guys in real life rather than running from your problems to the world of online dating? That is what I did after several online dating misadventures. I do think some guys just put a bad photo. I even told a poor looking sorry sad bastard that he should retake his photo as it was really bad, I thought I was helping him. LOL And those guys who take a photo with their kids, geesh, wtf is wrong with them. What I do not get, are women and really good looking ones, who go on with their photo and their boobs hanging out. Maybe that attracts the jerks in the first place. I mean putting a photo like that I am sure I would get lots of unwanted attention but who wants that??? First off you are right about those guys, what I found with online dating is that no matter how ugly the guy is if you take 'good' pics you will get responses. Second of all what you are missing is that those women want the unwanted attention.
charlietheginger Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 well if you use that avatar for a pic, it would put me off:) and I don't like facial hair. So trim the beard and smile what amazed me were the number of married men who contacted me. Or should I not be amazed? Like you were desperate for a bit of sex Don't listen to the above bullcheet. Beyourself keep the facial hair if you like it Dont smile no problem some chicks like the Tough biker look. NEVER BE SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT ! 2
fortyninethousand322 Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 well if you use that avatar for a pic, it would put me off:) and I don't like facial hair. So trim the beard and smile what amazed me were the number of married men who contacted me. Or should I not be amazed? Like you were desperate for a bit of sex The pic is of Walt from Breaking Bad. I look similar. And trust me I don't look good at all without facial hair. Not shaving that off. 1
FitChick Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Only a masochist would join POF -- AGAIN! "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." Join a paid site. 2
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 Yes, seriously. I'm having success with OLD, but I don't even have a job right now, let alone a "very good job". I'm okay-looking rather than "good-looking". I make a few wise-cracks on here but I'm not "extremely witty". Ok, so I am tall, but I don't think I tick the other 3 things that guys supposedly have to have, which is why I say that it's inaccurate. The whole 'women have it so much easier' thing is rather over-done in these forums. It's not overdone. Look at what the various genders complain about. The guys don't get any girls....and the girls don't get the guys they want. Two very different things. I'll be honest. I seriously doubt your first paragraph. I'm sure you're underestimating your looks and/or wit. Although it's possible that you're just getting girls for being tall (which is the most important physical trait women look for in men).
apple OR orange Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 after all the years of being online (and its many) the result is. Women are not obtainable and you cant believe ANYTHING they say. "Looking for honest real guy" with a photo with a super high skirt and almost all my t*ts out, now this will never happen. Paying for sex really is easier (well used to be until it got very expensive for some odd reason).
Eternal Sunshine Posted May 15, 2013 Posted May 15, 2013 Yes, seriously. I'm having success with OLD, but I don't even have a job right now, let alone a "very good job". I'm okay-looking rather than "good-looking". I make a few wise-cracks on here but I'm not "extremely witty". Ok, so I am tall, but I don't think I tick the other 3 things that guys supposedly have to have, which is why I say that it's inaccurate. The whole 'women have it so much easier' thing is rather over-done in these forums. I am sick of reading this too. All the guys I know in real life, even short, barely average ones with average jobs get plenty of dates from OLD. It makes me wonder how bad guys on LS are if they can't get a date...seriously. As for women, my friend that is kind of chubby but has a cute face, barely gets any contact on OKC. The only contact she gets is "wanna hook up 2nite" variety. Guys on here seem to egg each other on for the purpose of perpetuating their own delusions 2
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