Lay Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 how long of no contact until my ex will start to miss me? it will be two weeks as of tomorrow. how long does it usually take, and how long before they miss you romantically? ( as i've heard on here, ex's always have a way of coming back once you've moved on). i'm not clinging on hope, jw. (i am doing no contact to heal from it) http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/391419-no-contact-12-days-dumpee
TaraMaiden Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 How long is a piece of string? maybe never, maybe tomorrow, maybe already, maybe 2014..... why do you want them to miss you? What's the point? They're your EX. in NC, you need to quit focusing on them, and keep your focus on you. I confess posts like yours really, really irritate me... It's not a question of wanting your ex- to miss you. it's a question of you shifting your focus and dedicating yourself to complete No Contact, and wanting to heal, move on and keep on truckin' - You shouldn't care about them missing you. You shouldn't care at all, if they dumped you..... 3
ViciousCycle Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 I haven't been doing strict NC for that long. 2 weeks now I think. My guess is that one doesn't care nearly as much about what the ex is thinking after several weeks. That's the way I am progressing, with some back and forth. Still, I do find myself thinking that she's going to feel dumb when she sees what I have become. That is about the ex. Let's not make it about the ex.
ConfusedT Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Honestly, there isnt a definite time when or IF they even will.. They may begin to miss you and when I was the DUMPER, i really didnt even start to think about contacting them until at least over a month and by then I was so over the situation that even though I thought about it, it didnt mean enough to me to me to make it up. And likewise being the dumpee, i sat around for months waiting for that call and guess what, it never happened... But guess what else, I continued to live and thrive without that toxicity in my life and so will you. Just start focusin on you and not on them, they are not relevant any longer!! 1
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