jeni45667 Posted May 7, 2013 Posted May 7, 2013 I've had a lot of successful guys who want to help me in my career while making it very obvious that they're expecting something in return. I laugh it off and deflate the advances. I thought this is how things are. But recently, I had this guy who's also very successful who's giving me so much help without wanting anything in return. He's actually someone I'm very attracted to and won't mind to date at all. But he just keeps giving me help and wants nothing in return. I'm really confused. What does he want??
Author jeni45667 Posted May 7, 2013 Author Posted May 7, 2013 (edited) Wait for what? Edited May 8, 2013 by jeni45667
Ninjainpajamas Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 (edited) Wait for what? He'll show his intentions eventually....some men are a bit non-aggressive or don't know how to take the initiative...he's like setting it up for it. Otherwise he's a guy like me which is rare, I'd help you without expecting anything in return either....regardless of whether you were interested in me or not, I wouldn't even be paying attention. I'm just not desperate for the attention, nor would I pursue a woman in that manner, under the guise of "helping her". I personally see that as a weak personality trait (for myself, I'm a bit prideful in that way, I do things direct and in the face of danger! eek, girls are scary! *sarcasm*) If I was pursuing you, then I'd have taken the initiative or flirted. Edited May 8, 2013 by Ninjainpajamas 1
apple OR orange Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 if you turn this around, this is what the guys that wanted sex where thinking "wow she likes my help, but shes not showing she wants sex".... see how bad it is when you did it to them? Add to this, if you knew they wanted sex and you wasnt going to give it to them i HOPE you didnt keep taking there help. Thats called USING PEOPLE!.
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