dub4502 Posted May 7, 2013 Posted May 7, 2013 Hey guys how's it going. So here's a quick rundown...Me and my now ex girlfriend were dating for 3 years. I am 26 and she is 23. Everything was going well, we would argue and bicker but nothing crazy. A little on me I would get protective and jealous pretty easy and do have to say got settled in and comfortable. Her requests were act more like you did when we first started dating, little things like that. Well I guess I didn't act/change quick enough. She called me one night and said we need to take some time apart. I asked if we could meet for lunch and discuss it, she agreed to that. So we went for a walk and talked before lunch. She said I haven't made the changes she wanted, and doesn't want to, but feels the time apart would be best. So we agreed we were broken up and time apart would be best. Now we get to lunch, and before we go in she gives me a kiss, and says she still loves me very much?.?.? So at lunch we acted like nothing was wrong and had a great lunch, holding hands and flirting a little bit. We finished lunch I brought her home and again she asked if she could have a kiss and said she loved me and left. Now I have gone 4 days no contact, and it's hard. Thought it was weird I know it's only facebook but instead of changing her relationship status for the world to see she hid it, so no one could see the change. Prob thinking a bit to much into that. Also she said how do you know I won't call you next weekend. These things seem like good things but I don't know. So I guess my questions is, should I have hopes she will get in contact with me and want to get back together at some point, or should I chalk it up as a lose and put her out of sight out of mind? I truly love the girl I guess I just didn't show it right, I am willing to make personnel changes for her because she means the world to me. But I don't want to do this reflecting and plan out how to makes the changes if she's really just done and trying to let me down as nice as possible. Also after a while of no contact what steps should I take in getting her back, if any? Thanks in advance!
LoveB86 Posted May 7, 2013 Posted May 7, 2013 What a killer soft blow. She calmly enjoys a nice lunch with you, holds hands and all the love birds stuff. Then she tells you she needs time away and then gives you a kiss. Does that sound nice to you? Like she is letting you down easily incase she needs to get back with you. Puts you on a hold? That is wrong! If I were you, I"ll steer clear away and let her be to herself. My ex said the same even though there was no pretty picture of our "space/BU". He dumped me and immediately is in a relationship with someone else. I can't say my case is like your's, mine was coldhearted like a spit in my face, but take my word for it, do not worry about her. Start at NC and let her live life "hiding alone" without you. So sad as I can see this ending in tragedy soon.
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