trevjim Posted May 7, 2013 Posted May 7, 2013 I initally posted this in another thread I lost somewhere So I went on a 'double date' last night. My friends girlfriend set me up with a girl she works with so the 4 of us went out together. We went to town for a few drinks, it was first time I met the girl. We got on great, and my friends girlfriend told me she liked me and wanted my number. I was going to ask for hers but she asked me to swap numbers first lol. She had to leave a little earlier then us which I knew about pre date. When she left we shared a kiss. I felt the date couldn't of gone any better, she seemed really interested, always giggling and smiling, playing with her, seemed happy with my company However today I text her asking how her night was etc, general chit chat, and she seems a little off. Almost as if she suddenly seems a little uninterested but is being polite about it. Looking for a bit of advice, does she want me to chase her? Is she having second thoughts? Am I being too paranoid? So I thought i would just ask her out again and the answer I get will let me know if she is interested or not. I text her at 2pm, she didnt reply all day so i gathered that its a no, however the next day nearly midday, she replies "ye sounds good" whats with the huge time gap? is she playing hard to get or just attention seeking.
BluEyeL Posted May 7, 2013 Posted May 7, 2013 There is not enough information to figure this out. She could be playing hard to get, or she wasn't decided and for some reason that we don't know (attention seeking, maybe other plans fell through, she wasn't sure about you etc) and finally decided to give it a go. If you are up to it, go for a second date and see how it goes. A second date is not a big deal, don't over think it. 1
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