Kyle70 Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 So, Ive been dating someone for about 2 months. The other day, she said something to me that really threw me for a loop. We were talking about being sneaky about things, etc, and she turned and said to me, completely serious, "you know, I could lie right to your face and you would have no idea". I was so floored I didnt really respond to it. This really concerns me. Was she trying to tell me something, or just stating a fact? I need to talk with her about it to find out why she would say something like that to me. How bad is this? Shes also been really evasive when I try to bring up the subject of not dating other people so Im thinking I might be in a pretty bad place here. Im fairly certain that shes not seeing anyone else because of her schedule, etc., although there was a night this week thats in question that Im waiting to hear about. Sigh....man I hate this stuff sometimes.
YellowLioness Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 I think she's just playing games with you for the sheer heck of it. Anyone who is a decent liar can do that, not that this is a good quality, or anything. She told you that to keep you on your toes around her. Maybe she wanted to make you uncomfortable, and also warn you about herself. I'd take what she said to heart, and I'd ask her to just be friends. Don't let her mess with your mind, or your emotions. Don't waste time trying to figure someone like this out. Pack your bags, and find someone nice who doesn't play games.
Author Kyle70 Posted September 24, 2004 Author Posted September 24, 2004 Well, unfortunately, my mind and emotions are already involved, and I dont think I could just be friends at this point. Like I said, its been 2 months and we've been having sex for at least a month now. Im going to talk to her about it and see what her reaction is. I'll judge what to do from there. Any other suggestions?
DJ_Dork Posted September 24, 2004 Posted September 24, 2004 It's games man. She doesn't trust you for some reason. I would suggest telling her more about yourself and give an alibi on what you do. However, she must also reciprocate with this.
Author Kyle70 Posted September 24, 2004 Author Posted September 24, 2004 I agree. I also thought it was games and she has some definite trust issues with men. Shes been fu..ed over in the past, but Im pretty open with her and dont try to hide anything. I even made it a point to tell her Im not dating anyone else. Unfortunately, shes not fully reciprocating on this . Oh well...I'll know more when I ask her about what her comment meant.
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